What to do for my problem regarding my sexual life with my husband?

my husband is not satisfied with me in sex.he says mine is very loose and that he is not satisfied.because of this he is having external affairs.how to rectify this.should i get some operation done so that it goes tight.please give me a solution.What to do for my problem regarding my sexual life with my husband?
Wake up, hon. Your husband is just using that as an excuse to justify his infidelity. He's trying to make it YOUR fault, when it is 100% his. If it it wasn't ';looseness'; down there, it'd be something else.





You need to set him straight right now (assuming you want to save the marriage). He needs to either clean up HIS act, or leave his sorry butt.What to do for my problem regarding my sexual life with my husband?
I am 60+ years old and thought I had heard most everything a man could come up with regarding his ';needs.'; This takes the cake.





Pack his bags, clear out his possessions, and advise him to go and live with his piece. You don't want to have to worry about catching anything from his ';affairs.';





Talk to an attorney to make sure all your details are taken care of properly.





Don't try to change yourself to appease someone else. I delivered seven babies which you would think would stretch the equipment but, I had no such complaints from my husband. And I am not one to jump on the trends such as exercises for my parts. If there is a problem in that area, he helped to cause it, now he can deal with it.





Thank heaven mine is dead and I don't have to deal with that kind of attitude.
First you need to get rid of him. Being ''loose'; down there is no excuse for that kind of behavior! If he truly loves you he will not want to hurt you emotionally like that weather he has the sex life he wants or not.


Second, if he is having affairs and you have still been having sex with him you need to get your self checked out for STDs. He may catch something from one of the other women he is seeing and pass it off to you.


Third, you need to see a psychiatrist ASAP. Your self esteem must be extremely low to be putting up with that!
A good sex manual will help. It's not all about wham bam. A sexual encounter should have foreplay from both participants. Whether it is cunnilingus, or merely gently stroking, a couple's first priority should be satisfying your mate. Sex toys should not be out of the equation. Playing and stroking should be part of the mix, before intercourse even starts.
This doesn't belong under this heading, but here are my two cents.





1. There are exercises for that.


2. If a man tells you that he is cheating because you are too loose, he is not worth your time.


3. Explain to him that if he were bigger, it would be tighter, and that you don't get any complaints from the mailman.
first of all---- you put this in the government section? i guess that's ok....





anyway, i agree about letting him hit it in the butt. try inviting a couple of your best-looking female friends into the room. also, let him watch porn while you perform the oralistic sex.





this should go without saying, but shave and wash, where appropriate.
Men will turn anything into our problem so that they can justify the things they do. It is not your fault! It can't possbily be that bad! He's a jerk and you need to move on....if he's going to treat you that way, why would you want to be with him! Go find someone who cherishes you!!
Wow, external affairs? I would drop the poor sap!





As far as tightening...Kegel exercises will tighten your vagina. Best part you can do them anywhere, anytime. Noo ne will even know your are doing them.





Search WebMd get great info there
A loose vagina can be easily remedied by doing a douche using alum. However, if he's going so far as to openly having affairs, I think you have a deeper problem than just a sloppy p-u-s-s-y.
If he's having affairs, regardless of his excuses, I would dump him.





or ... tell him, the the guys you're having affairs with, like it
Google ';kegels'; and start doing those exercises.
Let him hit it in the butt.
How old are you?