My husband is fading daily. Colon cancer. How have other people coped with this type of illness?How do you cope with husband who is sick with advanced cancer?
Go to this website for information and support:
www.cancer.org
This is the American Cancer Society's website.How do you cope with husband who is sick with advanced cancer?
You need to know you are not the only one to have to deal with this. As aweful as it is, this too will pass. You are there because you can handle it, God does not give us jobs we cannot handle. You must be a very strong and loving woman. Don't be afraid to ask for help from your family, church or medical practitioners. If he was meant to go through this, you were meant to go through it with him, be strong, appreciate every day you have together, when he's gone, you will miss him, even if he is driving you insane right now. God's love be with you, Mati
Dedicate yourself to him, but don't make it obvious; he may feel useless and like a burden to you. Talk honestly together. If you have children, explain the situation to them and make these last days the happiest ever. At the end you'll be overwhelmed and very tired, but you can count on the rest of the family, church (if you're religious), doctors...Consult a psychologist if need be. I'm sorry for this...
faith and morphine. He will need you to stronger than even you believe you are.Only through faith and conviction can you achieve this. There will times you will feel alone. it is then you must seek out the councel of others becasue you cannot faulter even when you're sure you will shatter like glass.No matter what you believe in as long as you believe it will be your strength when you have none of your own..
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