How can I love my husband more?

I have been married for 8 years and I love my husband but lately I have been thinking a lot about one of my coworkers. I constantly think about him and I lust for him I just want him to kiss me and make love to me. What is wrong with me?How can I love my husband more?
What you are feeling is totally normal. Just because we are married does not change the fact that we are humans. What you can do is see what it is that makes you attracted to your co-worker and try and find the same things with your husband. How you are thinking about your co-worker you can think like that about your husband. All guys do this to us woman... You know that is how you fell in love to begin with with your husband. You just need to think about those first months of how it was when you were hanging out with your husband and I am sure You will get a big Smile on your face :o)How can I love my husband more?
There is nothing wrong with you sweetie. Everyone hits highs and lows in their respective relationships. You need to re-focus on your husband. It sounds like you are lacking his attention. You need to figure out what you need from him to make you feel special. Then have a heart to heart talk about how much you are needing him and give him specific examples of what makes your heart flutter. The goal is to get his wheels turning to actively pursue you. The most important thing is to find out what you can do to make him feel like a king. Do everything within your power to make his dreams (and fantasies) come true. Even if you don't necessarily enjoy doing whatever it is, take joy knowing that you are putting him on top of the world. The appreciation will come back undoubtedly (don't do anything with expectations of getting anything back though, just take joy in his smile). The more you focus on what you can do for him, your mind won't be drifiting to something new. It's so easy to get wrapped up in infatuation, but don't forget that you have so something so much more valuable, powerful and rare with your husband.
1 year later then the 7 year itch.. it is normal to have these feelings, it`s not a good idea to act on them if you want to stay married.





You are infatuated with what you don`t have and are curious to find out. Don`t cheat on your husband, fix your relationship and do the things you did when you first got together.
Your obviously missing some spark in your marriage.You two should do something spontaneous,to make things feel alive again.Rule of thumb is,';you can look,but you can't touch!';.This is normal in long relationships,you just have to get your thinking pattern back on your wedding vows.Go get some hot lingerie,and some wine.Fantasies are fine,but the thing is,if you did ever act on them,they usually aren't what they were all cracked up to be,plus you end up hurting the one person you really love.So you and your hubby go have some fun now!


Take-care!
You should try to turn the tempting fantasies in your head off where your co-worker is concerned. If he is showing an interest in you (which he probably is since you are having these thoughts), you need to be short with him in way that he knows there is no chance. Fantasies are fine, but not when they get to a point where you are bothered by them.
The problem is your looking for attention. Deep down inside you want your husband to pay more attention to you. This co-worker has something your husband is missing...





spice up your love life...romantic dinner, soft candles...bubble bath together...start off slow with the foreplay and when it comes time to making love it's going to be very special.
You're influenced by the wrong things. You either have love for your husband enough to not cheat on him or not. Stuff like this destroys marriages.
I think you need to have a little talk with Jesus before you end up without a husband. Put that lust in your eyes for your husband.
It's normal to have fantasies. Your husband have them too. It's normal, just don't tell him.
when you are making love to your husband, think about him. don't act on t. let it pass. it will