How do i approach my husband to be with this without him flipping out?

I'm getting married in October. and the man I'm getting married to left his phone home. He got a call from a woman that I've never hared of. So curious I proceeded to look through his phone book. There were several girls names that I didn't know (about 15) and one that said ';Kathleen escape from reality';. I need to talk to him about this before we get married. But I don't know how. Can anyone help?How do i approach my husband to be with this without him flipping out?
Talk to him about it. When that phone rang, you weren't snooping. Yeah you were looking in his phone afterwards, but you had rightful reason to do so! You are completely justified in asking him about this! If these women are just friends/colleagues/whatevers, he should have nothing to get upset about. Better now than later (or never)How do i approach my husband to be with this without him flipping out?
Be honest with him thats what its all about even though the conversation may not always be comfortable. I think it takes everyone awhile to transition into a married relationship he may not be completly ready to let go of his phone list. You said yes for a reason and he asked for a reason. When talking to him remember the love and respect you have it will help the conversation go smoothly. Also ask yourself a few questions about how you feel are there any other things that make you feel insecure within the relationship. If there are pre-marital counselling is healthy and normal sooooo many issues come up once you are married so why not be prepared together. I wish I had pushed my husband harder to go I probaly wouldnt be on here complaining and asking for help myself.
well, just tell him he left his phone at home, it rang, you thought it was him so you went to get it and a strange woman's name was on the id. You checked his phone book to see who she was and you saw 14 more strange women's names, and you wanna know who these women are. If he responds with a really bad attitude, he's probably messin around. If he's not messin around on you, then he will just explain it. Although, some people are good liars and they can calmly lie. Either way, your business will be his business and his business will be yours when you get married, so he shouldn't get mad at you for snooping. If he does get mad at you, he's probably guilty. I don't normally say it's okay to snoop, but you both need to know what you are getting into before you make that plunge. If you can't trust each other now, it will only get worse over time.
Just tell him that y'all need to talk and you are not sure he's ready to be married. You don't want to go into this with doubts and divorce is not and option for you. Tell him you went through his phone and the were some things bothering you because some of the thing in the phone was inappropriate. Ask him how would he feel if it was him and that this is unfair to you.
hi you need to honest with him and let him know what happen and that you was wondering if maybe something was wrong so you looked and after that you got to wondering and you need to know who they are because you don't want to be used and you are willing to marry him but first he needs to clean his phone out for good because that's not fair to you.honey if you are gonna marry him you should be able to talk to him they may even be family who knows good luck to you
Yes, you do need to talk to him. But, will he be truthful about ';Kathleen'; and how will you ever know if he is being truthful or not. It's not like you can call Miss escape fro reality and say... hey, is it true that you make my man escape from reality? It's about trust, either you do, or don't. Something made you look, so there must be some distrust there.
i would say something like this


';if we are to be married i dont want to be left behind for some other girl or girls your talking to.. are you talking to some girls? were getting married.. i think its about time to stop flirting hun!';


pretend you didnt even look through his stuff, he will think your a snoop. dont worry though i would of looked too XD make it sort of a laughing matter at the end so he doesnt think your very angry.





good luck!
Yeah! Just bring it up and don't be shy about it. This is something you need to get to the bottom of and resolve before you get married! You just tell him what you did and ask about the girls and what the heck is going on! Sounds fishy to me.
I wouldn't be marrying him if I was you and start moving on with your life elsewhere. I am sure you can find someone who won't cheat on you and treat you a lot better.
these girls are his booty call friends escape from reality equals booty call he doesnt want to face reality when he does he finds sex with this girl
Just talk to him frankly and know who ever they are It is your life and u need to be honest to each other.
Escape from reality means,She does not use her teeth,Yes talk to him!