He is 26 years old if that makes a difference. We have been together almost 9 years and married for 4 and it still seems like I can't think of anything to get him. I know that people say this holiday is for the women but I would not feel right if I did not get him some token of my affections however corny it may be. Any help would be great!What should I get my husband for Valentine's day?
1. Plan and make your partner's favorite meal at home. Instead of waiting for a table at an overcrowded, less-than-intimate restaurant, set the table with your good china, and plan out a menu complete with an appetizer, first course, main dish and dessert. Don't forget to light some candles and put on some romantic music in the background.
2. Go for a scenic drive. If you have “special spots” where important moments have happened in your relationship, go to each place and talk about the memories.
3. Write a love letter. How long has it been since you wrote a love letter to your special someone? Take the time to tell him or her the reasons you care in a handwritten letter that is sure to be treasured for all time.
4. Create a coupon book. Sure, it might seem a little cheesy to sit with construction paper and markers to make up a coupon book, but it's so much fun for the recipient to “cash-in” on the coupons! You can make them for whatever you think he or she will enjoy, from routine daily chores to intimate moments – just have fun with it!
5. If you and your partner live together (or you have access to their home!) consider taking a day off from work and sneaking in to clean up and decorate for the evening's festivities! Once everything is in it's place, give the furniture a quick dust, vacuum and wash floors, put some potpourri into boiling water to spread the scent, and set up for a picnic (on the bed or living room floor). When your partner comes home, surprise them with a basket full of snacks or dinner, and enjoy relaxed, quiet time together.
6. Make chocolate covered fruit.
7. Make a music CD of all your partner's favorite songs, or songs that have meant something to you as a couple. Remember making mixed-tapes as teenagers? Use your computer to put together a compilation CD.
8. Put together a video slide show of photographs and/or short video clips of you and your partner's relationship together. You can use Windows Movie Maker (free on most PCs) and add captions and fun effects to liven it up and add personality. Burn it to DVD and watch it together.
9. Forget the store bought cards! (Sorry Hallmark!) Get out some construction paper, scissors, stickers and crayons and markers and go to town making a pretty handmade card. It will mean far more than the store bought variety, and you might surprise yourself and enjoy doing it.
10. Take a moonlit walk. Much of the country is still quite cold in February, so be sure to bundle up and dress appropriately for the weather. There's something about strolling together under the stars in the moonlight that is extremely romantic and relaxing. Take a step back from the fast-paced world and reconnect through conversation.
11. Keep an eye on the newspaper, local events channel on your television, and/or the bulletin boards around town. If there are free events at museums or other establishments – take advantage of them and enjoy one another's company doing something new.
12. If you and your partner typically stay home all the time, you can go out on the town for a change of scenery and not spend a ton of money. Go to a local coffee shop and enjoy a hot beverage of your choice and share a dessert. Don't rush through it like you would on a normal day – linger at the table with your beverage and snack and talk about the past, the present and the future of your relationship.
13. Try your hand at writing a poem. Even if you don't consider yourself a writer, you can put some thoughts down on paper (rhyming or not) in poem form, and give to your partner who is sure to love it.
14. Take a photograph of yourself (mild or wild, the choice is yours!!) and put it in a frame for your partner to place on their bedside table.
15. Do you have a rewards credit card? Find out if you have any rewards to redeem! You can use the points for dinner out or for a hotel room, depending on the rewards program. Many people have rewards credit cards and forget all about the rewards they've earned.
16. Draw your partner a bath (or perhaps make a bath for two?) Add great smelling bubbles, and put on some soft music. Even if you aren't sharing the tub together, stick around and chat, wash your partner's back, give a massage.
17. Sprinkle the floor from the front door to the bedroom with rose petals. Add some rose petals to the bed itself! If this is a little too bold for the stage your relationship is currently in, you can use rose petals to decorate the table cloth or float them in a dish with a floating candle.
18. Create a handmade scrapbook of your relationship. Add photographs, love notes from the past (or current, if you still write them!), add a love poem or new letter.
19. Surprise your electronic-gadget loving partner with a new folder of songs on their iPod or MP3 player. Make it songs they love or recognize from different events in your relationship.
20. Give a lengthy massage with no expectations for something in return.What should I get my husband for Valentine's day?
stuff you need:roses,his favorite food,a sexy or cute outfit,candles,bubble bath,a radio with a good cd,strawberries and chocolate or whipped cream,champagne,
make him his favorite food,light some candles,wear a cute or sexy outfit,make him a bubble bath,play ya'lls song,feed each other strawberries dipped in chocolate or cool whip,give him roses,drink champagne.
well, can't much beat number one's zillion answers but doing something small and simple can often be the best thing. I got my husband a new black belt (i just noticed his other one was worn out) got him some mini reses peanut butter cups (his fave) in one of those big heart boxes, and a cute card. I'm also making him some choc. chip cookies with the read and pink swirly things. Got them at Wal-mart. And I bought some new lingerie. Omg, i got it from Victoria's Secret for like 50% off $12! They're having a big sale. I usually don't get stuff there. That night i'll prolly light a bunch of candles and put my ipod on my love songs playlist. Those type of things really are more for us, but I know he enjoys it too.
(If he hasn't planned anything yet you can plan on making him dinner and setting the table really nice with candles and music)
a scenic drive to the dairy queen
a nice meal
trip to a log cabin for romantic evening while others @ home
breakfast @ an exclusive place U don't ordinarily eat at
jewelry
tools for the household
Well my man Always says he wants nothing. Maybe if you made him a card, put a poem or something. Sometimes something like a keyring or chocolate. Have his fave food and spent some time together
get him another girl and have a threesome..he will love you forever
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