How can I get my husband to leave me alone,?

I feel like have a million tears inside me that I can never let go of and thousands of screams that can never be voiced. I just want to be left alone in my room until the feeling goes away and my husband won't let me. It's not like he's saying to me come on baby it will be ok. He gives me a list of responsibilities that I must take care of and I'm already drowning in those responsibilities. I just want the world to go awayHow can I get my husband to leave me alone,?
You should really see a therapist, hon. It sounds like you are having a really hard time. There is no shame in getting help when you are in pain like this.





Your husband is just confused and doesn't know what to do to help you, I'm sure. Men are fixers. When you tell him to leave you alone that is sort of hard for him to square with what he wants to do, which is repair the situation. He may not be doing it in the best way but maybe when he is feeling like crap that is how he motivates himself to feel better, by reminding himself of his responsibilities.





Seek help, don't be afraid!How can I get my husband to leave me alone,?
Stop running away from the problem and talk it out with him. If he gives you a list of responsibilities and you think that it is too much for you to handle, then tell him that he needs to help you with some of them.





If he works and you don't, then you need to take on the responsibilities around the house.....If you both work, then the household chores should be split evenly.
You need to tell him straight up to leave you be, and give you space. And, second, you should consider marriage counseling. That way, you can have a mediator. The counselor can also give some good advise to your husband that maybe you couldn't do, or maybe your husband won't get until someone else suggests them to him, besides you. Good luck!
Wow hun I feel so bad for you...


Can you muster up the guts and just stick up for yourself?


What if you just told him you won't be doing this because you're a grown woman and you will make up your mind?





Will he hit you if you stick up for yourself? Cause if he would, I would not hesitate in calling the police.





If you allow your husband to disrespect you like that, no one will ever respect you. Please build up courage instead of fear and stick up for yourself. Be strong!
Have you ever told him how you feel? Maybe he hasn't guessed. Men can be kind of slow that way. Talk to him and if that doesn't work, try crying. (At least, you will feel better letting all that emotion out.) If he still doesn't listen to you, get help or get out. It won't get better, and that could be viewed as abuse.
There are two sides to every question, ask yourself what your husband would be saying if he were to be submitting a question on the same problem . You must both sit down and sort this out because it cannot go on without becoming a bigger barrier to your marriage succeeding.
You need professional help. Do you have a counselor or psychiatrist? Wanting to stay in your room all day and be left alone is not normal. I can understand how your husband would be frustrated but he needs to be more understanding and try and help you.
I am there with you, sometimes we just need the room to ';Be';. I don't want to be a mom, wife, or friend to anybody. I just want the room to be free from all that. Sorry I can't help, but I hope that it is of some comfort that there are others out there who are going thru the same thing.
i am not married.I can give you my mobile phone if you want.


I can conversate with you one hours a day if you want.Go to aerobic or something to feel good.Is my first advice


I am from EUROPE. Your h will find somehow. Be more independent in your relation.Your own money,your own free time,your own car. If you can
dont listen to him...friend he is an earesponsible husband that will screw your life up if you obey his every command..when he wants you to do something go hang out with a friend.save up money to go on a trip just you and a special friends..if he leaves it is truly his issue..i would blow him offf.show him whose boss now. honey just be yourself..but with a lil edge. good luck...and really if push comes to shuve a divorce or restraining order works..
You need to talk to your husband and let him know that you need some private time and you need help with all these responsibilities you have.





Lack of communication is going to solve nothing and just keep on adding stress to your life.
At first , you have to ask yourself that you still love him.





if you still love him, you have to put endurence , otherwise





go to the court to take divorce. and find someone to love you.





I wish you have a good luck.
You need to have a nice looong talk with him. Talking things out usually the best way to go. Make sure he understands how you feel. If you don't like that answer just know there are other fish in the sea. In other words......


YOU DON';T NEED HIM!!!!!
Are you young and he is old? Let him know what you can take care of until you learn how to do what else he has asked of you.
There was a movie with Julia Roberts called Sleeping With the Enemy. It was a pretty good movie, and it sounds like what you are going through.





Get out as soon and as safely as you can.
Well you need to talk to him. communication is the key to solve all problems. He seems insensitive and bossy but unless to talk to him,he might think that keeping busy is what might help you.





COMMUNICATE what' bugging you
i feel for you. maybe you should just explain this to him and ask him to please, for your sake, just give you some time to reboot.
you dont have to do responsibilities because u are a woman. Stand up for ur rights, let him know he has a wife not a maid. I say...turn to GOd he will help you through this!!!
talk to him





Theres nothing i hate worse then my wife to be upset with me and not tell me why. most of the time if you find a way to talk about it yull feel better 2
Tell him this: ';I'm feeling very stressed out and overwhelmed at the moment, do you think that you can respect my feelings and let me have some alone time';
i think you have to voice it out what's inside you. nothing will happen if you'll just keep them. do it in a way that he'll understand..
You should tell him whats bothering you because he may not know this.So if you told him he could probably try to make things easier for you.
He gives me a list of responsibilities that I must take care of %26gt;%26gt;%26gt; Oh hell NO! %26gt;%26gt;%26gt; What you do is turn around and look at him and say, ';If YOU need these things done so bad YOU do them';
Have an evaluation for depression.
He is trying to keep you engaged with life...please see a counselor about your depression...
sorry . B
i think your starting to be depressed am i right? go to your doctors and find out
divorce?
let me know what i can do to help you
go an a trip just you
RESTRAINING ORDER!!!