I would like to have another baby because I dont want to wait too long, We can financially support having another baby which is not a problem but when we first met he said he wanted lots of kids and now we have one and he says he wants no more. how can i convince him to want to start trying for another one. has anyone else's husband's been stubborn to the idea of another child??? all ideas welcomeHow can I convince my husband to start trying for another baby?
Bug the heck out of him, that's what my wife keeps doing!How can I convince my husband to start trying for another baby?
If you have to convince him, you shouldn't have another.
I think that this decision just has to come to him on his own or else he'll blame you for forcing him to do this.... or guilting him... You could also sit him down and tell him how you are feeling about this. I mean.... when you first met him he wanted lots.... its very unfair of him to mislead you considering if you wanted lots too.
Here is how i see it...if before marriage you both agreed to having alot of kids and now he changes his mind than thats breach of contract.Unless you both decided after one that you wanted no more than he should honor that previous agreement and if he doesnt than kick him to the curb and find a new guy.I hate it when men play the ';i didnt know how hard it would be card'; Boo hoo.Dont let him ruin you desire for another child,if you fall for it you will feel incomplete later.
A lot of people in my family had always said that they wanted large families of their own and after 1 or 2 kids changed their mind. Your husband probably said he wanted all these children with out realizing how hard of work it is to care for them emotionally, physically, and financially. You can't force him to want more children if he doesn't then as hard as it may be then you may have to except the fact. If you make him feel guilty into having a child he will only resent you for it. I hope for your sake he changes his mind but it is something you will have to decide together. Good Luck
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