I think I upset my husband by wearing a thong bikini on vacation today, but dont know how to ask?

I wore it under my clothes until we got to the beach and he was very surprised. I'm petite, athletic, asian and I know he likes how it looks on me, but it also got a lot of attention from others. I wanted him to be happy, but he seems different tonight. Any thoughts?I think I upset my husband by wearing a thong bikini on vacation today, but dont know how to ask?
Where were you? Spring break in Cancun? I'm sorry I just find it a little hard to believe that it got ';a lot of attention';. Maybe it's because I live on the beach %26amp; a thong isn't exactly a shocker to anyone. Anyway, it kind of sounds like you're thinking he's mad because guys were looking at you, when he might be thinking it's just tacky. I find thongs to be very 80's myself so maybe he just didn't appreciate your fashion sense.I think I upset my husband by wearing a thong bikini on vacation today, but dont know how to ask?
The best way to ask is BEFORE you spring that kind of surprise in public! I don't know the ethnicity of your husband, but in the course of my life I have found that a majority of men have 2 different standards for women:





1) the females they have no intent of introducing to their mothers, no intention of marrying...or do not plan on marrying any time soon, and





2) their wife...the mother of their children...the one who has vowed to remain faithful and true to them and them alone.





I have no doubt that had you done a sensual modeling show for him, wearing that particular bikini, he would probably have dropped his jaw! THEN is when you should have gotten his opinion of wearing it for every other man...and budding young men...on the beach to see what the good Lord endowed you with.





Now...sit quietly for a few minutes, collect your thoughts, tell him you love him but you think you made a bad choice...and could you both please talk. You may be surprised at the other issues which may come up that you didn't even realize WERE issues.





But don't delay, dear. Clear the air, even if he huffs a bit.
I would ask him flat out if it bothered him. if he has a problem with it FOR A GOOD REASON then maybe you should wear somthing he is ok with. i wore a brazilian bikini once that barely covered my butt, my fiancee was very affended and told me that he felt like i was disrespecting him and that it was a prize that hes the only guy that gets to see my behind. i ended up changing it. just flat out ask your husband and if he has good reasons...respect it.
Honestly you should've asked him if he was comfortable with it before you wore it out.





Your his wife.... maybe he doesn't want everyone seeing you like that....





Its one thing if you wore it to impress him... but wearing it out in public, may have been to much.





Now that you have already done it... Just ask:


FOR EXAMPLE:


';You've been acting pretty differently lately ever since our trip to the beach... Did I do something wrong?';- You don't have to mention the bathing suit, it may not even be whats bothering him... let him him ';tell you';.





Best of luck, sorry if any of this seems alittle mean.
I agree with the other answers! Ask him straight out. Ask him why it specifically bothers him. If anything, just assure him about how much you love him, that he is the only guy for you, etc. He might just need a slight ego stroke. But if you like your bathing suit, wear it. It is your body, not his. While he can have an opinion, and you respect that opinion, the decision is ultimately up to you.





If anything, put your towel in front of his so he can have a perfect view of your sex-i-ness!





~Saki
You both are adults just ask him in an adult manner. Apparently it upset him but it will boost his ego to know that you took the time out to see how he really feels. And that you care and takes his opinions into consideration
It does sound a little provocative for wear in public, but he will get over it. I mean, its in the past, what else can he do?...
I wish I had seen you in it, lol. I have no idea why he would be acting differently. I would be happy that my wife got some looks from other men.
Are you sure this is true? You might have a strange husband.