I love him dearly and he says he thinks I am not happy and it's not like it used to be with me smiling all the time. Things are great in the bedroom and I'm just busy cleaning and cooking alot of the time so I get in the zone.
He says I just ***** and complain all day long and he can't stand it. I'm not bitching at him, I'm just not all full of light when the toilet overflows and there's 3 inches of water on the bathroom floor.How do I show my husband that I love him?
What's more important to you a clean house or keeping your husband.How do I show my husband that I love him?
Keep your work separate. he is ur husband not ur agony aunt. even he has problems but he might be busy sorting them out rather than crying to you. How would u like it if he stars crying abt every thing that goes wrong in his life... jut=st relax, get hold of yourself, do not think of him when u have a probelm, call the plumber damnit!!! show him and yourself that u know your job, u are in control. simple.! and about loving him, feel young woman. feel naughty, feel light headed and do something exciting, enjoy with your husband (after finishing ur house chores successfully). It will give u a sense of accomplishment and will automatically give you a high!!!
Have you heard of love languages? Everybody hears love differently, so how does he hear love? Maybe compliments? Maybe presents? Maybe physical touch? Maybe something else? My wife and I speak different love languages so it's easy for us to forget that and be speaking love to each other, and neither of us hear it.
Well
I understand that you are a working mum
And it is very tough
But maybe once in a while
Just leave it all
Prepare him a nice cooked meal
And just tell him you love him
Make sure you have sex regularly as well
And just make sure he has fun
I hope this has helped
Good luck :) x
Leave ur works 4 one day n just sleep with him, play with him, have sex with him n go 4 movies with him...a lot of things u can do.. But when he is hungry, ask him 2 call nearby restaurant! Continue it till he himself ask u to do ur jobs n till he understands u. Its so simple..
lots of sex. in strange places. and get a hotel room and take him there after work.
yes that is what we need.
and hire a plumber.
stop nagging unless you want him to think of you as a mother or cousin ( which means no sex and no attraction)
Write him a letter of how much you care about him. Or, make a nice romantic dinner for him and write a nice poem or something. I'm sure he'd like you to fuss over him. It might make him feel better :)
he doesn't seem to understand that you do all the work and you are frustrated. you need to tell him, the reason. tell him you do love him but he also should take care of things at home.
Life is hectic and it can be very busy at times just go with the flow and calm down a little just bite your tongue and breath everything will be fine ok!! We all have our issues and you are not the only one remeber this!
They all say that. They think because a woman is upset that she nags and all. I bet he would complain even if you sat still in one place all day and said nothing.
apologise after you guys arguy
dress up for him
do something romantic
then you guys can mentions things that bother each other
call him daddy while having sex
Put his genitals in your mouth.
Hello Strangchic
I see that you have received alot of advice already. Mine is a little different.
Love is when we give of ourselves with no thought of benefit to ourselves. This is very hard to do, as we tend to get in our own way alot.
If you can do this with him, he will feel loved. In order to do this, you do need to understand your husbands nature. Men are so foreign to us, that they often feel like aliens. LOL - this is because they are our opposites, we are here to complete one another. We can come to understanding through correct actions . . .
';A woman should express her appreciation of her man, letting him know that he is special to her, that he is great - and doing this often! Then she will realize what he needs from her, and what kind of a connection there should be between them.'; The rest of the article here: http://www.kabbalah.info/engkab/life-lov鈥?/a>
If you desire to understand further how to create that wonderful space in which true love exists, follow the link below to a fun animation . . .
Shalom
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