How could I leave my husband and still take my kid?

me and my husband currently live in Washington, and I am considering separating from him and moving back home to where we are both from. I want to take my son because he is in the Army and it is more practical for me to at this point. But, I know my husband will make this hard, he is going to want to refuse me taking our son when I leave. How do I deal with this?How could I leave my husband and still take my kid?
My stbXH and I lived in Louisiana and I filed for divorce and moved my son and I back to California, where we are from. Before you do anything, schedule a free consultation with a lawyer in your state, they can advise you best. My XH ended up giving me permission to leave the state, even though I never thought he would either. Once he realized that I would get full custody anyways, he realized that he would just be the bad guy if he kept us away from my family and home. Good luck!How could I leave my husband and still take my kid?
It wouldn't be up to your husband, but up to the judge. You can have a lawyer draw up the necessary papers. The fact that your husband i in the army may work in your favor- lack of stability since he's probably gone a lot. I'm curios though, why would you do that to your son? He is not the blame for your marriage going south, why should he have to pay the price.Think this through. If you moved him to another state to be spiteful to his father- you could very well rob him of whatever time he has with his father. He's putting his life on the line and you're taking his kid. What a huge price to pay. You need to find common ground for your son's sake. I'm not saying stay together, just stay in town. If your son is that important to you then find a place in the town that you're in. You didn't say why you wanted to leave, if he was abusive you would have said so off top. So I'm guessing you met someone and is cheating on your husband.
Well first of all.. the child is not yours, he belongs equally to both of you.


Second of all, why do you think it is best to uproot him and deny your son a father?


Third of all, there is no reason your husband (Army or not) could not take care of your son.


Any great father would make it ';darn hard'; to be separated from his son. Please tell your husband what you are planning and not just sneak into the night with the child.


How do you deal with ';it';. Get counseling.. see your priest or minister.
you can't just take your kid. it's up to family court who is the better person to take care of the child. You can't just up and leave.





My parents got divorced even before I was born, but when i was 9 years old my mom and step dad wanted to move somewhere that was about and hour longer away from my dad than where we were before and we had to get my dad's permission even before we moved.
Pack up enough to get you through and tell him that you are going to go back home and visit so you can get your head on straight. If you leave your processions, he will think you are coming back. While there talk to a lawyer and find out what you need to do in order to take your son and leave.
wait till he is out of the house, either work or off with mates, pack bag for u and another for ur son, on items u will need and want.. then get into ur car and drive away back home, leavin him a note explaining things, turn ur phone off also and just keep on drivin till ur home.. bcos he is in army and not goin be stable person to bring up ur son, the courts will reward u with full custody anyways, with access to ur hubby.. also b4 going make sure have place to go to and save bit money up also.. and when time right just head off.. goodluck..
You shouldn't take the child out of state until the divorce is final and custody has been worked out. Anything less would be unfair. No parent - and I mean - no parent has the right to take their child out of state and away from the other parent.





Sort it out and then move if that's what you want.
you can't take your kid from his father. Are you getting divorced or doing a legal separation? They will decide custody/parenting plan and all that crap when it goes thru. He has every right to refuse you to leave.
See a very good divorce lawyer. You can't just run off with your child as this is his son too. Courts don't look favorably on parents who just up and run off with a child.
You are right it may cause more problems for you then be better. The only way you can take him is if you get a restraining order and move away.
Divorce is tough and this can take many years to resolve itself.Try talking to him if you can and see if you can work this out but taking his son out of state,thats hurtful.
You can't legally do that. Get a legal seperation. If you try and take your kid you could end up in jail.
Sit down and work out an plan together or file for divorce. Let the lawyer do the thinking for you.
Consult and attorney before you go to far. If he has abused either of you turn him in.
cops restrainning order and court. those are basically your only three options at this point sorry
Go to court and get the custody of your child.
get some advice from a lawyer in Washington and the state you are planning on moving too...
Don't ask, just do it.
If you just did it, you could go to jail. For kidnapping. You can not just take your child, without your husbands consent. And he has every right to make it hard on you. The child is not just your child. you need to learn how to respect that.


You need to have written consent from your husband before you take your child out of state.


Looks like your stuck into Washington.
guess you shoulda thought about this before you got impregnated. if my wife left me and took my kid they'd find her buried in a ditch some where.