Is it acceptable for my husband to go to a stripclub with friends once in a while?

Am I naive to think it is innocent?Is it acceptable for my husband to go to a stripclub with friends once in a while?
I have worked at strip clubs on and off for years and I would say 97% of the time it is completely innocent. You could go with him, it might even be fun! My fiancee and I go to them occasionally together, and we always have a good time:)Is it acceptable for my husband to go to a stripclub with friends once in a while?
You don't understand the nature of men.


Men have this ';ability'; to look at something (sexual) and take a snapshot of that image and store it for future use.


Like when having sex with YOU. He can visualize any and all women while with you. Yeah - it seems all hot and everything, but you don't know what is going on behind his little brain. If he did not have those images - all he would be looking at is YOU!


This is the problem with anything pornographic. Of course it stimulates him into greater sexual arousal. THAT'S THE POINT. The problem, again, is you women do not understand how a man is wired. 99% of women do not see porno as a guy sees it.


OK - he goes to a strip club and nothing (sexual) happens. Pretty innocent. WRONG! He has just downloaded 1000 images that he can pull up at his convenience to satisfy any sexual need he desires. He really does not need you anymore.


This is why the Book of Job (Bible) states - ';I will make a covenant with my eyes.'; because this is where men live. If he demands to go to strip clubs - he is being fully selfish and casting you and your worth in the trash.
Most of the time it's just innocent fun. I wouldn't worry about it until he starts making it a major part of his life. If he starts ignoring you for strippers, you have a problem.





There is nothing wrong with a man looking at other women once in awhile. To think you are going to get married and he will never, ever think about or look at another woman is pretty naive.
Well,strip clubs do have v.i.p areas where [obviously] more then just lap dances go down.No your not naive to think that,us as women are naturally trusting,its a curse =] .So its a matter of trust %26amp; respect,if you don't think he's one to want a nasty piece of a** when he has you,and you trust him why worry.Either way,it wouldn't bother me,its just a strip club,don't stress it.
it depends on how YOU feel about it. there are many women that are fine with it and there are many who are not. heck, there are women who aren't even okay with their men looking at porn on the computer or in magazines. personally, i am okay with it as long as it's seldom and as long as our sex life is okay.
Let him go for it.


Those girls are not competition...theyre there for the money.


And chances are its more about bonding with his mates than the girls anyway.





Actually come to think of it, your man is probably safer in a strip club than an ordinary club because you know none of the girls in the strip club are after him...just his wallet lol.





As long as he isnt spending stupid amounts of money in tips or anything, who cares?





I think its great that you are secure enough not to stress over this silly male passtime. You have nothing to worry about. Its even guarenteed that hes only looking, not touching in those places!
Depends on the husband, depends on the stripclub.





A no touchy feeley, club without booths or VIP is probably OK.





I'd make sure you are waiting for him when he gets back, all hot and bothered, and remind him with your body, exactly what he has waiting at home..!
I dont think I would like it if it were my husband to be honest. But he is honest with you and thats good as he isnt sneaking off behind your back doing it. I bet it is innocent - but thats not to say he doesnt have a dribble and a drool over the stripper. typical bloke really.
Yes, men will be men. If you can stand it go with him to get a better idea of why he is going or you can do something similar for him in the privacy of your own bedroom. Keep your sex life alive and fun.
Why go to a strip club?





He's got you, right?





Seriously though - if you are okay withit - then yes, it can be acceptable. BUT if he goes every week, or more than once a week... i'd be concerned.
Is it acceptable to you.





That the only question that should matter to you not what everybody else thinks is acceptable or not.
I have a couple of times and my wife has gone to girl parties with male strippers no big deal we always go to sleep together and all that happened was I saw a nude girl and she saw a nude guy.no big deal
i think i would ';allow'; it. but maybe i wouldn't really like it. its really up to you. i think it can be pretty innocent in the scheme of things,
Depends on how much money he has or is planning to spend. These places are obviously made to fleece men and the drinks are expensive.
no no no no!why????go to other place not to stripclub?


and if your married just spend time with your wife and kids of course.
It is only okay if you say to him it is okay.
some women are ok with it (personally i dont see how) but if you are not then he should absolutely respect your wishes
it is innocent, and you could always go with him.
It is a good thing for a guy and it can reduce the chance of him cheating
It is as far as I am concerned.
If it's in public, but what about you ? what's your night out, think about it.
Once in a while is OK, and you should not put your eyes to him....
It's fine as long as he doesn't sleep with them!
NO