Sunday, August 22, 2010

How did you tell your husband/boyfriend that you were pregnant?

I know the obvious answer, just tell him. I'm so nervous right now. My period is late and I'm not sure if I should tell him that it's late and have him worried, or if I should take a test first and then tell him.How did you tell your husband/boyfriend that you were pregnant?
Take the test first and then tell him. That way, he wont be worrying about it too. Think about how much you are worrying. He will be feeling the same (well, different, because it's in your husband's point of view). If it turns out to be negative, don't tell him yet. I would take 4 or 5 tests. over the course of a week. If they are all negative then you are probably not pregnant and will most likely need to see your doctor to find out where your period is! You can always get a false negative, but almost never will you get a false positive.How did you tell your husband/boyfriend that you were pregnant?
I had been seeing my boyfriend/fiancee for a year when I found out I was pregnant. I called him up and told him that I had something important to tell him but I had to tell him in person. So when I saw him and walked up to him he asked me if I was pregnant -- he had figured it out already just by the way I was acting and saying I had something extremely important to tell him. And we weren't exactly being careful when it came to sex at the time anyway so it was bound to happen.
I was also nervous to tell my boyfriend. I just didn't know if I should blurt it out or wait to the ';perfect time';. About a hour after I took the test I went to his house we were standing in his garage about to ride our scooters and I just said it. His reaction was priceless. Since he wasn't expecting that at all he turned our scooters off and pulled me out of the garage (so I would not inhale the fumes from the scooters) and was smiling and looked nervous all at the same time.It was great lol





I think you will know when the right time comes. Maybe you should get the test first so you will know for sure or not.





Good Luck to you
I had the same problem, but I found that telling my husband that i might be pregnant before i took the test made it all a little less stressful. Neither one of us were sure we were ready for a baby. But he was there when i took the home pregnancy test and when we found out that it was positive he was there to celebrate with me, and we found out rather quickly that we were wanting a baby. Good luck and just take a deep breath its going to be ok
Take the test first, there isn't any reason to get him excited or nervous when you don't know. So take it and then tell him if it was positive.





Even when we were wanting another child I never told my husband until I took the test because he would have been nervous:) and then possibly disappointed when I wasn't.
well w my first we went and bought the test together and he was right by my side the whole time and then we cried together! w my second we had tried for months and by the time i was about to take my final test i just put it off cause i didnt think i could handle another neg. then when i finally took it (he was at work) and it was positive i called him and screamed w excitement ';i finally passed the test!!'; he was so happy and yelled were pregnant! it was so exciting!!
1 week before i told him i had a suspicion. i took a test on sunday it came out neg but i told him there was still a possibility so i tested again 5 days later and it was positive. i called him and said ';babe that thing came out positive'; and that was that. i have said the same thing both times. i always plan on some cute way of telling him but i just cant wait till i get home so i end up telling him the minute i find out.
I waited until after the test. I've been late before though, so I didn't really think I was pregnant. I didn't want to worry him if I didn't need to.





Once I got a positive, I just showed him the test. We stared at each other for a minute trying to read each others' reactions, and then burst out laughing.





I would test first. You can still talk to him about it either way afterward, but at least you'll already have an answer. Good luck.
Take the test - it's nerve wracking for them to sit and stew if you tell him that you're late lol. However, if you're really open then it might be exciting. I told my husband that I was late and to get me a test - and it was +! Then I made him get me 2 more just to make sure lol.
take a test first. if you tell him before you find out he will get scared and not want to have sex for a while.





my friend made me take a test at work, I didn't think i was prego at all. the next morning after i took another test i called him crying because i wa so scared. everything turned out great. we Love our daughter so much and have fun everyday with her.
Oh heck no! dont tell him! do what my wife did......i walked in a house full of baby stuff and was told i needed to finally put the addition on the house...after that, then she kissed me and broke the news to me....got all this after i waked in the door....it was painless, took all about 10 seconds!
i recently saw a question like this and asked my boyfriend what he would rather me do and he said that he wants to be there with me when i take the test. he said that its a big part in our lives and he would love to be there for it.
i took a test and was in shock , he was having a drink with a friend and i couldn't wait till he got home so i text him i know it was lame lol he text back ';are you for real'; ,then he text ';everything will be ok';
dont stand in front of a set of stairs or eat anything he gives you for the next month. when my girl got prego she had an ';accident'; i wouldnt want that to happen to you. o btw can i have ur boyfriends email so i can give him some advice
Take a test first. You may cause a lot of drama for nothing. I told my fiance by calling him crying lol (It was a shock and very unplanned) Needless to say...here I am with a 16 month old gorgeous baby girl, and alone. :)
my husband was standing outside the bathroom when i took a pregnancy test. and he wasnt aloud into the bathroom until the test was done.
youu should def. take a test. you prob gunna take all dat courage %26amp; eventually tell him, then maybe it isintt a childd after all.
My husband seem to know the next day that i was pregnant.


Take a test then sit down and tell him
Get your answer first, then tell them. Honesty is the best course of action.
What! I'm pregnant?
First take a test and then tell him!
Buy a crib, he will figure it out.
take a test 1st then if it comes out positive. when i found out i called my hubby asap
just tell him
sit him down during dinner or something and tell him...





...or do what they did in full house and play shirades and make him guess...lol

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