How do I tell my husband I'm pregnant at a bad time?

I just lost my job and we're struggling to make ends meet. We just got married a few months ago and we weren't planning on having children until after we got out of college. I'm 20 and he's 21.


Both of us are devout Christians who oppose abortion. We both want children in a few years, but right now is definitely not the best time. How should I tell him I'm pregnant? I'm afraid he'd be angry if I just came out and said it and I'm so unbelievably nervous.How do I tell my husband I'm pregnant at a bad time?
Pray that your husband will realize it's God's will. It may be difficult, but children are a blessing.How do I tell my husband I'm pregnant at a bad time?
As christians, you have to realise that God has his own, perfect, plans for you, and his timing is not our timing. This definitely applies to having children!





My friend ended up having 2 within 13 months - definitely Gods timing rather than hers and her husbands, but she wouldn't change it for the world. On the other side of things, my husband and I took 7 months to conceive our first, but the timing ended up being perfect, and have now spent 7 months unsuccessfully trying for number 2, so again Gods timing is not ours, but I know that whatever happens will be what God has planned.





Its so difficult to see at the time, but you will look back on this and see why God has done things this way, so you need to sit hubby down and explain that although you wanted to wait for a family, that God had other ideas. I am sure once he gets over the shock, he will be delighted.





Lots of luck.
All you can do is tell him. If he is angry then he should not have been having sex with you, because that is the only way to prevent pregnancy 100%. I'm sorry that this is such a hard time for both of you. Just sit him down and tell him calmly. Hopefully he will take the news well and not get angry. Good luck to you both.
for one you didn't do it on your own


if he loves you he wont go on a mad one


ans as you say your against abortion your only other answer is to tell him before you tell any one else that will tell him


you might be surprised on his reaction


sure you have months before your baby is due


and things might pick up before then


you might be able for help from your nearest social welfare


if not im sure your family and his will help you both out


talk to him over a Special dinner you will be fine it has to come out eventually hun good luck
You need to be honest with him. At first it may be a shock but im sure it'll be ok.





Congratulations and best of luck