How do I get my husband to wake up?

I am at my breaking point. I have been through so much in 3 years with this man and now it is like I am the only one who cares to try and I dont want to try anymore. How do I get him to understand that I am going to leave if he doesn't show me more attention? I am so lonley even when he is there he is not really there what do I do?How do I get my husband to wake up?
my husband too! for a long time he is only worried about moving up in his job. and he is doing great in hat aspect of his life. but i am being ignored. he doesnt show me attention. i nagged and nagged him. until yesterday i asked him to leave. now i was (and still am very scared) because i think he may like it and stay gone and never come back. (we have two kids, he called them tonight but thats it) he may like it or he may think and come home sooner or later. eighter way he is at his moms and i am sort of upset. but i do this. i was driving myself crazy with him here and feeling like he didnt care. it was just sick. i was sick.


i am lonley. but i was lonley with him here, just now i dont feel rejected as well. only time will see if he wakes up.


u want him to wake up. then ask him to moveout (in a nice way, like your finished and need time 2 think.) and then wait.


but warning...........the wait can be madding.How do I get my husband to wake up?
sweetheart I am really sympathetic to your situation. I have been there, actually quite recently. Let me briefly explain. My husband was horrible. He ignored me, chatted online to women, didnt pay attention to me our son or our home. I kept telling him that one day I was going to leave him if he didnt shape up...problem is I said if for about 3 years. Finally I realized that I didnt need his crap and could find someone who would give me what I wanted. So finally this past summer, I left him. It scared the hell out of him. We were separated for almost 4 months. We lived apart, didnt talk much unless it came to our son and I pretty much avoided him. Then one night, he showed up at my friends house in tears begging me to take him back. He is a changed man now. He has seeked couseling, went on medication because he was a depressed man. You have to follow through with your threats,, because he probably thinks thats all they are. If you leave him, be prepared that it could be over for good, but dont tell him you will leave him if you dont mean it. I really hope things work out for you. Just whatever you do dont have an affair that will complicate things my dear.
tell him plain and simple if he doesnt start to show some kind of effort in the relationship you will kick his butt to the curb like the lazy creep he is. give him a set amount of time like 5 or 6 wks but only tell him that he has a month to start improving and after the month is up see if the changes are permanent or were just for show.
Just leave! He will not understand for a long time after you leave. It will take him time even if he chooses to think about it! You are obviously out of time for dealing with him especially since it is going to take him a long time. So start packing, start finding a new life!
Meeee toooo! But with my boyfriend, thank goodness! I'm going to back off of my bf and give him some space and see if he notices. We haven't done ';it'; in over a week which is a long time when your still dating!
Why don't you just leave then he will get the message.
Ugh I dont know what to tell you but when your find out let me know too!