How can I make my husband want a baby?

I really really want to have a baby, but my husband is not so keen on the idea. He thinks he will go broke if we have one. He is the breadwinner of the household, and we are by no means poor. (we both work, drive luxury vehicles etc.)


what gives?


any tricks to get him to want one. How can I make my husband want a baby?
You cant make him want a baby. But i think deep down he doesnt want to because he is worried he will lose all his time with you. Reassure him this will bring the family close togetherHow can I make my husband want a baby?
That's a hard subject. My husband was sketchy on the idea but I told him I wanted a baby and that was that. And it wasn't until after I got pregnant and had a miscarriage that he realized he wanted to be a daddy. Obviously that isn't the ideal situation for you and I wouldn't wish that on anyone, but just know that they come around eventually.
I don't think you can make a man want a child, he has to want one on his own. So you want to have a baby and then he not be interested int he child or resent the child because he didn't want to have a child yet? Not good.


You should get with him a write out a budget plan and show him you guys could afford it, and involve him in the process of maybe planning for the child, men like hands on things. He is going to have to want to embark on this experience willingly and not feel pressured into it....trust me.
Honestly, this should have been something that the two of you should have talked about before you got married.





He is making up reasons to not have a baby because he knows you want one and he doesn't. The best thing you can do it try to talk it out with him. If that doesn't work, seek some counseling to get to the bottom of why he doesn't want kids.





You can't trick a person into wanting children. If you ';sabotage'; by not taking birth control or by poking holes in condoms and end up pregnant because of it, he could resent you for it. Tread lightly and he might change his mind as he matures a bit.
NO NO NO. I am not sure how old you are ie. twenties or older etc but you CANT trick him into wanting one. This is a bad idea because the baby will be brought into an unwanted world. This may affect your relationship. He either doesnt want a baby or he does and thats his choice. If he NEVER wants a baby and you do then you need to rethink the relationship as it will not work. Dont force yourself to get pregnant as this can cause more problems than it is worth as I have seen happen with my friend. I think you need to understand if he never wants a baby or wants one. If he wants one but not now then this is a good sign I would highly recommend talking about a 5 yr plan etc. I would say put together a baby savings fund to save for the arrival of the baby and besides most governments will help you.





Just dont rush this stuff as it is life changing....good luck!
girl i'm feeling u on this question lol. i wish i knew too!!! maybe he thinks he wont be able to have the luxury car and the nice things if you have one. every time my husband is around our nieces and nephews or kids in general....he says ';i'm never having kids'; lol so keep him away from bad *** kids haha.
Show him the benefits, try and sit him down infront of the tv infront of a show that shows the benefits of being a happy family or a movie.
best thing to do is talk it over with him


-ask for reasons, why he dosent want a baby?


if he dosent agree then have sex with him without a condom and when he's ready to *** don't let his dick out.
If it's obvious that his reasoning for not wanting a child is false, then there's another reason why. You need to find out the real reason and wait patiently until you are BOTH ready.
You can't make him want a baby. You should have thought about it before you married, but I guess it's too late now.





You could always have a pregnancy scare and see how he reacts?
You can't trick someone into wanting a baby. Either they do or they don't, even if you persuade him into having one he will only resent you later on. sorry.
You can't make him want one. But mayeb if you discuss your finances more and show him how much you really want a baby he'll realize that he does want one?
He must like small babies. put some nice baby pictures in house. Tell his friends to convince him or do sex everyday. God bless you.
show him the good reasons and have your friends with babies to come over and let him see for himself and see whose boss now! ahaha!
If he doesn't want a baby that's his choice.perhaps hes not ready if so find out when he is sit him down and talk about it.
Haha i say turn him on, and do your thing, and just ''mistakingly'' get pregnant =)