How can I make my husband jealous?

This probably sounds really juvenile.. but my husband and I are separated and I miss him terribly. I wish we cold get back together. Lots of people have told me I need to make him jealous.





Is this a good or bad idea and how should I go about doing it?How can I make my husband jealous?
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http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/22425001/vp/鈥?/a>How can I make my husband jealous?
Very bad idea, childish and inmature. Don't count on tapping a guy's ego by making him jealous, this is not a proof of love, its an ego issue. I learned that with my ex who never loved me and was being unfaithful to me. We were separated, like you, and I went to the club I knew he was at and started to dance with this guy and my ex came up to him and the bouncers had to remove him from the club. Result, he was still the same jerk who did not love me, what made him jump was his ego, not his love. Be smart and move on.
no, not a good idea. whats the final outcome you want here?





you are in need of attention, but you think jealous attention is healthy?


no, its not.





if you need attention, have you tried calling him to talk about working at your marriage? i imagine if you are separated and not divorced then there is still a chance at this marriage.... if so, call him up and ask him to dinner or cofee so you can talk. be active and work at this, don't sit back and plot out evil jealousy plans. thats probably why you separated in the first place, you are not going about things maturely.
Yeah, it does sound juvenile. Sounds like you need more mature friends if the ones you have are telling you that making him jealous is a good way to get him back. This is not 7th grade. It's life as an adult with a real, adult problem. If you want him back you need to do it the way an adult would. Go and talk to him. Tell him that you miss him and you want to give it another shot.
Don't try to make him jealous. Watch the movie Fire Proof. Seriously do it. It has some super great ways to tell him how much he means ot you and making him jealous is not one of them. i have to say that is the best movie i have ever seen. My husband feels the same way. A tad cheesey at the five minutes but watch it to the end. Making him jealous will only feul the fire that you are trying to put out. Would you want him to make you jealous? no, you would be hurt by that. You don't need to add more pain to what is already there.
Appear to be living well (even if you are miserable) and have social engagements with girl friends etc. Look your best.....work at that....buy some new clothes and be good company when you do see him and always close the meeting or phone call before he does when on a good note or having just had a good laugh together about something. This will ahve him missing you far more tahn playing games of dating someone else. (that would not work)
If you do anything that looks like you are talking to other guys, he will assume youre moving on with your life, and he will wont come back, thinking you dont want him anymore.


You need to find him and spill your heart out to him. Let him know this is not easy for you and that youve been missing him. Dont even think up what to say, just say whatever comes out when you see him, so it will be real.


If he rejects what you say, then you start looking.
I don't know if you need to make him jealous as much as you need to make him miss you. That can be accomplished by just giving you both some time to sort things out instead of pursuing him.





Sometimes problems get so intense that men tend to withdraw, especially if they are getting lots of pressure from us.





sorry, i know this is prob a tough one to be in. my heart goes out to you.
Bad idea. If you really want him back you need to have a serious conversation with him. Missing him is not necessarily a good reason to get back together and trying to make him jealous may actually backfire and make him feel more inclined not to get back together.
Juvenile, yes. Likely to have a positive outcome? No .





Those people I'm sure are women. The best way to get him back is to go to him and tell him you want him back, and to treat him with the respect and love that might work.





That takes GUTS. Making him jealous is the coward's way.
If you want to temporarily patch things then perhaps this could work; however, in the long run it's not going to for this reason alone. I say give him space and redefine you are without him; if he comes back on his on (and he very well could) you'll have more to offer for the both of you!
If you know where he is on a certain night show up there hanging all over a stud and when he notices you take off with the other man and when he tries to call your cell don't answer it for a couple hours make him think the stud is doing you.. Pretend you never saw him.
Bad idea. Focus your energy on yourself and only yourself. Go to the gym, meditate, take a walk, read books, go to church etc. He will come back on his own or he wont. At least you know it has nothing to do with you. You are working to be healthy in mind, body and spirit.
And will making him jealous bring him back forever? NO.





Why did he leave you?





Fix those problems, and maybe he will come back to you. I can see why he maybe doesn't want to be with you and those childish ways.





Sorry to say.





Good luck though.
it will jus make him angry watch the movie break up c it didnt work.. write him a sexy email show him he is a big part a u life and u want to be with him cuz u luv and care for him and you wont give up on he love da easily.





wish u luck
It's a bad idea. You should want your husband to be with you because he misses you and loves you, not because he's jealous. That's not going to bring him home for the right reasons and it's juvenile.
Invite him over for dinner open a condom and spit snot in it and leave a pair of your panties laying on the floor next to it before he gets there.





If he can be violent had a weapon close by.
You're right it is very juvenile and can backfire in a bad way. The best way to get him back is to figure out why he left and do better for yourself.
No that might cahase him away.. try and ask him out on a date. Make it a night that the both of you have never done before.
Inciting jealousy in a man is not a smart thing to do because jealousy quickly turns to anger in men.
Bad idea and most likely gonna backfire on you. If you want him back, get him to come back the right way.... because he loves you and misses you.
Grow the hell up and just tell him how you feel. It may or may not work but at least your acting like a grown woman.
If you sleep around you will either make him jealous or very mad. Think about it.
Best way to make your husband jealous - start seeing a Divorce Lawyer!
i think it's a bad idea. trying to make him jealous could make things worse.
get yourself a ';girlfriend.'; that outta do it.
Take your clothes off for the Gardner.
Come and See me.
get a makeover and suggest a few drinks.


drag up old memories and just have a good time. :)
Bad idea! Just talk to him honestly and tell him how you feel.
ignore him - as though you are not interested


he will see the light