Wednesday, November 23, 2011

Going through rough times with husband, what helped you and your spouse to keep it together and fix things?

I don't want to give up and i became so close last night that something has to change or we won't make it. We have no money and we fight about it constantly as well as other things. I want to know what has worked for you.Going through rough times with husband, what helped you and your spouse to keep it together and fix things?
dont give up if you truly love him. You have to sit down with him and pray 2gether. You have to let go and let God. The Bible says the prayers of the righteous will never be forsaken. God is able and you have to remember he won't fail. All these trials and tribulations are for a reason. Don't give up because a breakthrough is right around the corner. If you feed your faith right noe it will pay off. Ima leave you with a llitle scripture i love. ';the race is not given to the strong or the swift, but to the one who endures to the end.'; God blessGoing through rough times with husband, what helped you and your spouse to keep it together and fix things?
you two need to get down to the basics of what brought you together. which is love. money problems are really tough and it will put the relationship to a huge test (trust me, im going thru it too) but you need to constantly need to remind yourselves that youre in this as a team. just because things get tough, doesnt mean you 2 are enemies. youre on the same team working towards the same goal.


when arguments get too heated, just take a little breather.
Financial counseling.


Most people live above their means thanks to credit cards and loans and leases.


Cut out one thing at a time and see if it helps with the stress.


You have to find yourself and your love that you had in the beginning.


Why do you have no money?


No jobs...? Find a solution to the small things and they help you out.
Counseling really helped us when we had our last big fight. Sometimes it takes hearing about yourself/him hearing about himself from someone else to understand why you react to things the way you do. Check to see if your insurance covers it and there shouldn't be a problem.
Don't fight about things that you have no control over. When you fight about money does it suddenly fall from the sky? Are you able to get a better job, or a second one? If you can do it! Can you cut back on something such as the cell phone or cable? Counsiling helps...
Money is the biggest reason why people divorce..Sit down make a financial plan what you make compared to your bills any extra save it..You both may need 2nd jobs to get threw it but if you love each other money problems can be worked out as long as both parties are willing to work on it...best of luck..
counseling
Odds are you probably wont make it. Sad but true.

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