Pipeline jobs, where can my husband apply as a roughneck?

Where do you apply, to find a job working as a roughneck for a pipeline?Pipeline jobs, where can my husband apply as a roughneck?
South Louisiana has many openings for oilfeild personel.Pipeline jobs, where can my husband apply as a roughneck?
These may help. www.midwestpiperebar.com www.summitpipeline.com
It totally depends on where you live. Roughnecks are usually rig workers, not on the pipeline. Need more information.

How can I forgive my husband?

Three weeks after my husband came home from Iraq I found out that he has been having an affair for the past five years with a girl fourteen years younger than us. He even took her to meet his mother and sister. He says he's sorry and ashamed of himself now. He broke things off with this girl and has quite drinking. I don't know how to let it go.How can I forgive my husband?
It has only been three weeks. It's far to early to 'let go'. This was a major emotional trauma and will take time and lots of energy from both of you to rebuild trust and recover. It is not realistic to think you can just forget, this was real and it has to be dealt with. He betrayed your trust and lived a lie for five years. Something within HIM was lacking and he needs to address his own problems.





At three weeks, you are lucky to be able to even think straight, still in shock from such a heartbreaking discovery. You must be on a major emotional rollercoaster at this point.





Your husband needs to start this recovery process by removing the third party from your marriage completely. Ending all contact with her.


If he had a drinking problem, then he needs to seek help to keep himself from falling to those temptations again. Individual counseling and joint/marriage counseling may be helpful. It may take trying more than one counselor to find one that is experienced and has the goal to help save your marriage. (Not all do). It will take time to rebuild trust. Your husband will have to earn that trust by being open and honest with you.





There is no quick fix. Marriages can survive this horrible trauma, but it takes lots of work from both to rebuild from the damage.





Some resources that might help:





A good book:


';Not Just Friends'; by S. Glass





A yahoo group that has many helpful articles and links in FILES about affair recovery. Not a good support board, not very active. But, loads of stuff in files.





http://groups.yahoo.com/group/AffairsTal鈥?/a>





A few other helpful sites:





http://www.dearpeggy.com/





http://marriagebuilders.com/





http://betrayedspouse101.tripod.com/





Some support groups for those dealing with infidelity that you may find very helpful:





http://www.lifesaviors.com/SI/





http://survivinginfidelity.com/





An ebook written for the former wayward spouse, to help them understand what is needed to help the betrayed spouse and earn trust again.


http://aftertheaffair.net/How can I forgive my husband?
Girl that's something that no one can ever replace you cant forgive that for 5 yrs hell na. He made vowels to you he broke them. Am sorry but if you love someone you would not cheat on them once a cheater always a cheater remember that and if he's been with her for 5 yrs I promise that things are not left alone with them. They still have some unfinished things.


That's something that you cant forgive and forget. I would leave him I know it will be hard but it's the right thing to do. If you don't than your just a doormat to him am sorry for what's happen to you.
You don't need to let ';it'; go ... you need to let ';him'; go. Five years, five minutes, it doesn't matter. The trust is gone, with no trust there's nothing else. He's ashamed now that he's home, but where was the shame for five years? Where was the shame when this girl met other members of his family? You can do SO MUCH BETTER if you allow yourself to walk away. I've heard of this situation a few times now. These guys think because they're overseas, fighting for our country, they are allowed some extra-curricular activities. NO WAY!! Would you forgive him if he were working close to home at a regular job? Just because he was overseas doesn't give him any special right. Vows are vows and he broke them, and not just once. Five years while you were here keeping everything together for him and being faithful to him. That's the thanks you get? Have some self-respect and walk away with some dignity.
im sorry to say but i would leave him . i have told my husband many time that i love him but the only 2 things that would make me leave him is abuse or cheating. wow having an affair for 5 years is nothing to just get over . its not like it was a 1 time stupid thing .... 5 years! i know i would have to let him lose cause even if i tried i would never want him to touch me again cause everytime we would say something sweet or touch me i would be thinking.... ';did he say or do that to her?';. my heart hurts for you but hopfully you can move on. and how dare he have her meet his mom and her not tell you i would be more than p*ssed!
For the past 5 years? I don't think so, screw that! I would have left, and the fact that mom and sis didn't say anything to you in 5 years is just disrespect! Don't, that's unforgivable, that's not some fling, that's dedication to a lie. But if you want to, forgive him, you'll never be able to fully let it go. That's a steep betrayal.
I have no advice for you because I wouldn't be able to let it go either. Do you have to let it go? I guess if you love him %26amp; want to stay together I would recommend some intensive individual and couples therapy. My sister %26amp; her husband were separated for a year. They've been back together for 2 years and I know she still has angry feelings toward him. How could you ever trust him again?
my hubby cheated on me before we got married i let it go but my story is much different he only had 1 affair and did not want to make the little slut apart of his family. in your situation i would honestly say its going to be really hard to get past the facts like it was most likley an emotional affair, he introduced her to his parents, and it went on for 5 years! and your were married while he was doing this witch means hes got no respect for your vows
Well, that depends on whether you still want him.


Ask yourself what is more important your hurt feelings


or your husband.





If you still want him then you need to get into marriage


counseling immediately. And that means both of you together.


If you don't find a release for the hurt and the pain you will


eventually kill this relationship anyway.









Maybe you can both go to marriage counseling. Sounds like he was really planning on making this lady part of his life permanently. Perhaps he realized what a mistake he made then changed his mind. Perhaps he is lying to you still. Check into it. For that, in my personal opinion, I'm not sure I could forgive.
Hi


I know what you are going threw my husband did the same thing but for me its been 7 years for me you will never forget and you will never trust my life was full of pain this person was 22 years old we had been married for 21 years when he did this to me my daughter help her dad I can't trust her either now we are going on 26 years of marriage and the pain is gone but I will never be able to trust him 100 per cent


I guess what help me was I need all my question answer.


I know some of it would be painful but I couldn't go on with out knowing I fought for our marriage because some little young person was not going to take my life I gave up alot to be with this man.


I love him. so for your question you have to ask your self is your marriage worth fighting for if not then go out and fine you again


we seem to lose our self in our married life.


I take care of my self more and know that if this ever happen again I could leave this man and not look back so good luck on your marriage and if you want to talk just e-mail


deseriefernandez@yahoo.com
i'm sorry he did this


he can't love you and treat you like this, he knew you would find out, so he confessed


i cant tell you how to ';forgive him';, because there's not a good way to do it... my advice is divorce him, because i know from experience, Once a Cheater ALWAYS a Cheater
If an affair lasted for 5 years, including introduction to his family, it may be time to walk away. If you forgive him, you will always wonder if he will stray or lie again. On his behalf, he did go to war and he may have changed so it may be worth another try.
WHAT IS UP WITH ALL THESE MILITARY MEN CHEATING ON THIER WIFE?!? CAN YOU MEN NOT CONTROL WANTING ANOTHER FEMALE WHEN YOU ARE AWAY FROM YOUR WIFE?





pinto drivin' SOB: Dang your dumb. That's not a smart excuse to use. But you are one of those military guys that just doesn't know any better. Whatever! Don't try, and defend the cheaters on here! They have no respect for thier wife!
Leave him!!





Just ME: you should look at it from both points of view, not your egotistical feministic direction. a guy leaves for 4-15 months and he comes home to a dear john letter.














WHAT IS UP WITH ALL THESE MILITARY MEN CHEATING ON THIER WIFE?!? CAN YOU MEN NOT CONTROL WANTING ANOTHER FEMALE WHEN YOU ARE AWAY FROM YOUR WIFE?
Wow that is a lot to swallow. The affair is one thing taking her to meet his family is another. Are you sure they are broken up? How about some counseling. You may be able to forgive but may not be able to forget. Good luck!
EXCUSE ME!!!! Let ';it'; go! I think you need to let ';HIM'; go!
you don't!



listen to your heart. it's the only way.

What would happen if my husband and i just walked away from our mortgage and debts? What's the process and?

would we be able to rent a property or would we be blacklisted. Thanks in advance for answers!!What would happen if my husband and i just walked away from our mortgage and debts? What's the process and?
If you walk away (and hand the keys over), your mortgage lender and other lenders who lent you money can persue you for up to 6 (and in some circumstances 12 years).


With regards to renting, it depends on if the letting agent / landlords carry out credit file checks. If they do, than they might say no. You do have several options available to you regarding your situation, and you should seek help before you the drastic step of walking out as you have nothing to lose.What would happen if my husband and i just walked away from our mortgage and debts? What's the process and?
Actually this is done everyday - by companies that walk away from their creditors and debts. It's called liquidation and perfectly legal. But in their case they walk away and can start another company the same day - debt-free and apparently free to trade again. But for an individual, you will get a bad credit record and that will tell against you when you try and get credit or a mortgage. Many people have declared themselves bankrupt when things get too much for them.
seriously...join the club.





I'm in the states, but look into renting your home out and moving into a smaller place. This way the rent you receive will cover most of or all of your mortgage. You will then be saving money by cheaper monthly housing payments so you can start catching up on bills. You can also consider both working a side job temporarily to get you out of the hole.





Other than the above, you may want to look into the different chapters of bankruptcy.





Good Luck....and remember...you're not the only one...AT ALL.
UK Advice





Firstly, there is absolutely no such thing as a blacklist - this is something that is invented by loan sharks and companies trying to sell you 'clean your credit file' services - pointless and unnecessary.





If you were to walk away from your debts, leave your home and ignore the mortgage - obviously at some stage, the mortgage company will repossess the house and your unsecured creditors will chase you for balances owed.





Repossession would remain on your credit file for 6 years from the point of entry.





Defaults and CCJs from your unsecured debts would remain on your credit file for 6 years from the point of entry.





Creditors will find you unless you're exceedingly clever and can avoid leaving any form of paper / electronic trail to your current address - and they will continue to chase for any outstanding money owed on the mortgage after they've sold your home (which they do quickly to raise capital - usually at a loss). CCJs can be made against you even if the creditor doesn't have your new address - a court judge will expect you to have updated your details with the creditor - which is reasonable, unless you are attempting to avoid your debts of course. So you may find you have CCJs without even knowing it because the paperwork never came to you.





With these things in mind, your credit rating will list all of these things for a period of 6 years from the point of entry, and therefore any potential landlord who does a credit check on you, will realise that you are a high credit risk - and may use this as part of their decision to rent their property to you - or not. Local Authorities won't have such concerns - unless you owe Council Tax of course.





Bankruptcy may well be a good option - but if you have a good income, the Official Receiver may take a portion of this from you for a period of 3 years in the form of a monthly payment which will then be distributed to your creditors.





Bankruptcy remains on your credit file for a period of 6 years too, but you will always have to declare the fact you went bankrupt for credit applications in the future above 拢750, applying for a mortgage or when asked (by an employer for example)





For help with your debts you could try:





http://www.payplan.com - Payplan


http://www.nationaldebtline.co.uk - NDL


http://www.adviceguide.org.uk - CAB





Hope this answers a few questions!





Best wishes





Peter
Your house would be repossessed and sold for a loss, and you would then owe all of the remainder, which they would then chase you for. You could try bankruptcy, but it is a hard road from there.
You'd be blacklisted hell join the club.

I received a check from insurance that is made out to my husband and/or myself and/or mortgage. How do I cash?

What do I or my husband need to do to get check cashed to pay roofers.I received a check from insurance that is made out to my husband and/or myself and/or mortgage. How do I cash?
You call your mortgage company.





Look on your payment statement - there should be an 800 number. Call it.





Tell the mortgage company that you have an insurance check and they are listed on it. You may have to get transferred a few times before you end up speaking with the correct department. But the mortgage company will tell you what to do to get the check endorsed by them.





Everyone who files a homeowners claim and has a mortgage on their house....gets a check with the mortgage company listed on it.





That's because your policy has a loss payee clause that requires the insurance company protect the mortgage companies interest in the property. The insurance company does this by listing the mortgage company on the check.I received a check from insurance that is made out to my husband and/or myself and/or mortgage. How do I cash?
If the check says and or then you can sign it. But since you have a mortgage make sure you repair the issue and pay the provider or the mortgage company can seek reinbursement. In the state where I live if the check is 1500 or more it has to go to the mortgage company first.
I had the same thing for roof repair. I had the mortgage co. endorse it. Then I cashed it. Still paid for the roof.

How can I stop my husband scratchin his stubble every 4 seconds?

He has very sensitive skin, when he shaves, a day or 2 later, he scratches his face non-stop. He will not try any creams that I buy to minimise the itching. help?!How can I stop my husband scratchin his stubble every 4 seconds?
Only worry when he starts scratching his nut bag every 4 seconds!How can I stop my husband scratchin his stubble every 4 seconds?
I have very sensitive skin, as well. I use a shave cream designed for sensitive skin. It usually has aloe vera in it. I also get a clean washcloth, and soak it in cold water, squeeze out the excess, and then lay it on the area just shaved. I now have a full beard, so I only shave underneath my chin.





I'm assuming you buy MEN'S aftershave products, etc, or products labeled ';FOR MEN';, and not products with women as their target group. Perhaps he thinks that ANYTHING that even remotely smells like perfume is unmanly, even if it IS made for men, and he's trying to avoid that. You could try sneaking up on him, after he's shaved, with a small amount on your palms, and rubbing it on his cheeks. My guess is that you're just going to have to let him be a bozo in this area, and suffer. Too much scratching, however, could lead to an infection, if there are germs on his face, or he doesn't immediately wash his face after it gets dirty.





If another guy he knows and respects, has the same problem with sensitive skin, and he uses something to control the itch, maybe your husband would listen to HIM.





You're a great lady; your husband is lucky to have such a caring wife.
He can shave again.

How can I tell my husband Im unhappy with our sex?

I always give and receive NOTHING, I wish he would do more to me but without me asking, I always tell him I want good sex but he seems to not understand... Also Im an attractive girl so I don't get it...I know he's always too tired for everything! What could be his reasons? Also he's deploying soon so why can't he atleast enjoy these last few weeks together, I don't know what to say or do anymore...Advice and Opinions Please!How can I tell my husband Im unhappy with our sex?
From personal experience I can tell you that the deployment is weighing heavily on his mind, and you should keep that in mind when you approach him about your sex life. This can be a touchy subject under normal circumstances, so please make sure to talk in a nice even calm tone. If you are showing that you are as frustrated as you really are then chances are he will get either defensive or depressed over not being able to please you. When he is deployed he will be worrying about this conversation a lot, not because he thinks that you will cheat but because one of his buddies will undoubtedly receive a letter from their loved one saying that it is over. The only advice I can give you is to talk, don't accuse or complain. Tell him that you read about something or that you would like to try something as a change of pace. Look up new positions with him or even read up on all the pleasure centers of the body together pointing out which ones you would love. You may have to ask him a few times but after showing him how much it works he should start going for it on his own. Communication is the key, tell him that you would like for him to surprise you instead of you asking because you don't want to ask too much of him. Just remember to be calm or even just in a good mood when you bring this up so that it isn't doomed from the start. I hope this helps.


---- The following is from my husband who is also military--------


On the other side of the relationship my husband says; its tough for men to deploy, a lot goes through our mind. We worry about many useless things for example, if you say I'm not happy with sex right now ( or anything of the such) we are possible to think '; She's going to cheat on me.'; or '; I'm worthless.'; Sex is a valuable subject to men. I cannot begin to explain how we MUST be the best you ever had, or at least think so. In saying so, new things may be tried, but they must come from you and not from your past.


................ now face it ( my husband stated this) ';Some men suck';, but we can be trained; if ANY sex has ever been good then it can be good again. Stress is something that we react poorly to in bed. Deployment IS stress.


Try not to worry about sex at this time, show him that you love him, but don't over do it because then he could start thinking that something is wrong. Follow these words of advice and things should improve, but of course it is also dependent on his stress level. Good luck.How can I tell my husband Im unhappy with our sex?
you have to be specific. Give him a road map to your body or at least be his gps system. Tell him where and how you like it. Make sexy noises when he does something good. Dont tell him he is doing it wrong or he loses his confidence. ........


If all else fails break out the old vibrator in front of him and do it yourself in front of him. Let him know he is not needed if he refuses to learn. .





You can also fake the orgasm quickly and leave him high and dry a few times. Maybe he will understand how you feel then.
If you are constantly telling him that what you are getting is not as good as you want it to be, he may have a bruised ego. Try focusing on what he does do right and giving a lot of positive feedback when something feels good.





Touch yourself where you want to be touched while he's watching. He's likely to join in. Take the pressure off of him to ';perform.';





If all you are saying to him is you want good sex, that is pretty vague, especially for a guy. And when you are giving ';directions'; the right approach and how you word things can make a big difference. Some guys are turned off by a woman who seems ';demanding'; (i.e. ';Do THIS; DON'T touch THERE) If you say something more like ';I really love it when you...'; or ';... would make me really hot'; Give him compliments. Tell him he's hot.





Hope That Helps. Good luck :-)
I like that last post....get a porno and play';lets do everything they do';....or just come right out and tell him that you need more without hurting his ego. Say is something like ';honey it makes me so randy when you ........'; That may remind him what you really like. Most guys are just oblivious...they want to make you feel good but go about it their way...sometimes if I know what i want before we get started I get myself to that point so we can just have a 10 minute quickie and both feel satisfied...i take longer to go so i just have to start without him and then jump his bones once I'm there...its truly awesome...but if i left it all up to him....yeah none of that would happen and i'd be getting nuttin....Be assertive lady and seduce him. :)
hey why dont you get some karma sutra books or if you are into a porno movie show him what you want. im not into that so i suggest you take him and say tonight we are not talking and you are going to be my toyboy and do what i want you to do and go from there .but you got to make him beg for it otherwise there is no point i reckon.he he.have fun go get some toys whips chains from an x rated shop and enjoy him and show him what he will be missing dress up in a really skimpy outfit oh have a look on the inet at the strippers they have things you can buy online and much beetter than in x rated shops.
With men you have to be very straightforward. Say it like it is; You may have to draw him a picture of where...well, you get hte idea. But your best bet is to just talk to him when you're both relaxing and be nonconfrontational about it.





He's probably stressed about leaving again. He may be worried that he won't make it back and that's why he's acting the way he is but you won't know unless you talk to him about it.





Good luck to you and thank him for serving our country.
Hi! I think communication is the problem. U say that he gets tired. Why dont you look at his physical health first? Give him some tonics, vitamins and stuff. If he has mental pressure, that also might be the cause of his tiredness. Ease his tensions and maybe u might get what u want.





If that is also not the case, then try to be explainatory to him, what exactly u want... Your husband is a man not a superman.... Try to see his point too.





Best Wishes!
You give nothing? Try making his time left with you memorable - give him the ride of his life, and see if that inspires him to greatness. If it doesn't, then you know you're onto a dud, and either you find someone else, or you learn to live with it.


Just make sure you decide it BEFORE he leaves.
It's always about you, you you girls. The poor guy is probably freaking out! I bet he's going threw a change and it's not about you. He's becoming a man like it or not he is changing and he knows it. Try to support his feelings and thoughts. He will need it. Good luck!
The first thing is might be you're very good person.....


The second thing is for sure, your husband is an idiot.


The last thing, these stuffs occur when someone is getting used, abused or f***ed for fun....





My advice-Develop rock-solid attitude!!!
He lacks the stamina right now to accomplish such thing. I don't think you're the problem, just his sex drive.





I suggest Viagra and Vegetables. They always help the impossible (Good sex) become possible.
You are dealing with the most delicate subject in the known universe - sex - and the most delicate object known to man - the male ego. No matter what you say or do you will not win.
just tell him that he has to give you orgasm.
Since he is your husband (I'm not sure how long you been with him), but tell him straight forward what is on your mind!!
just ask him whats going on. its your husband and your sex life!
u need to grab him by both ears hun,





I AM IN THE PLAYPEN WITH SWEET MILDRED
maybe he doesn't like anchovies on his pizza.
just wait til he is gone and then call me

beauty eye

rimmel

Is it normal for my husband to often go directly to his parents after work instead of coming home 1st?

He could come to our house first and invite me to join him in his visit but he doesn't They are active independent people so he is not there to perform chores for them.He also refers to his parents house as ';his house';.He claims that is because he was there for a long time.He is now 45 yrs. old we have been married for almost 6yrs,I feel ';his house ';should be his home where he lives with .Am I overblowing this? .Is it normal for my husband to often go directly to his parents after work instead of coming home 1st?
Way Over Blowing this, relax its His ParentsIs it normal for my husband to often go directly to his parents after work instead of coming home 1st?
hate to say this but my EX-husband did the very same thing. We lived next door to his parents for the first six months of our marriage and he would go straight over there before coming in the house....and then he wondered why I was mad when he spent an hour over there and I'm sitting at the table with dinner ready.


We are no longer married. This wasn't the only issue but his mother especially definitely didn't help our marital problems and it was due to the lack of ';cutting the cord'; that caused a lot of them.


I don't think you're overblowing it but after six years I'm not sure what you can do to get it to stop.
No, you're right, but you're fighting a losing battle. If you haven't mentioned that you want to go with him, you might do that. Otherwise, there's not much you can do without his resenting it. I know a woman who got out the Bible and showed her husband where it says something to the effect of a man shall leave his parents and be with his wife, and Wow! the husband and his parents both got really mad and it caused lots of problems.


You have to pick your battles; I'm not sure this is one I'd pick. But this is just my opinion. Hopefully, someone will have a solution.
No, you're not overblowing the situation. He should come home. He is unaturally attached. If you are close enough to your in-laws, ask his mother what you can do..ie what is his favorite dish growing up, etc...They are probably going to have to tell him he needs to GO HOME to his WIFE..and what's he doing there. Otherwise, if this just started recently, you might want to show up at his parents house for dinner to ';cook dinner'; with mom and see if he shows up.
I don't think that there is anything wrong with his behavior. I am sure that he calls your house his house also. I still call my parents house My House as well as my own and I have been married for almost 20 years. I think that it is good that he has a close bond with his family. He could be doing something wrong like going to a strip club or meeting up with some other girl before coming home. Count your blessings and the next time you see him give him a big hug for being such a decent gut!!
When i first started reading I was thinking this has to be a young guy but 45?? Come on! Did u marry someone that was still living with his parents until 39 years old? He is still in his routine of going home to his parents everyday. Time for him to move on and come home like a real man - not mummy's boy.
I had a husband who did this before.


I found out that............he liked his mom's cooking better, she spoiled him and he felt better taking a dump there, instead of our home.





I guess I may of overblown this too, but then again, he was cheating with his cousin and she was always over at his moms.
I think that your husband is doing something at his parent's house that he can't do at your house. Probably has myspace account or signed up to a secret dating site. Porn?? There's definitely something. Look and you will find.
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you are not overblowing hits! is time to CUT his UMBILICAL cord and he needs to learn to live his life with his wife and not be a momma's boy!!!
Not at all. Your house is his house, not his parents. I wonder how his parents feel about this. Did he live with them until you all got a house?
Have you asked him why he always goes there first? I do think that's weird. He should come home to you.
have you tried telling him how you feel?


and i am on ur side with this.
I don't think your overreacting at all. He needs to understand that his wife comes first

Pipeline jobs, where can my husband apply as a roughneck?

Where do you apply, to find a job working as a roughneck for a pipeline?Pipeline jobs, where can my husband apply as a roughneck?
South Louisiana has many openings for oilfeild personel.Pipeline jobs, where can my husband apply as a roughneck?
These may help. www.midwestpiperebar.com www.summitpipeline.com
It totally depends on where you live. Roughnecks are usually rig workers, not on the pipeline. Need more information.

How do you and your husband/wife split of the household chores with a baby?

Me and my wife have a 3 month baby girl. I work a full time night shift and my wife stays at home and doesn't work.





I constantly have to get on my wife's case about picking up after herself and to wash the dishes, since she uses the most of them.





But everytime I get on her case she calls me an asshole and tries to make me feel bad.





I, however, clean the kitchen (cuz she doesnt), bathroom, bedroom, the catbox, vacuum and throw the trash. and I'm able to do it EVEN WHILE TAKING CARE OF THE BABY (feeding, playing, reading, and putting her to nap)





I don't understand how i'm the bastard here if I expect her to do bare minimum household work, while I do the rest.





How do you split up the chores, how do you make it fair?How do you and your husband/wife split of the household chores with a baby?
Taking care of a baby is a full-time job, its harding than any full-time job outside the home. I have to remind my husband of that everyday and I have a 2 year old and 2 3 week twin girls to look after. She should at least do the house chores if your going to work.How do you and your husband/wife split of the household chores with a baby?
Well my boyfriend worked part time (as in 8-12 hours a WEEK for a while) and I was on call 24/7, doing ALL the household chores, ALL the laundry, ALL errands, ALL the dishes, shopping, bill-paying, car-fixing, cooking, cleaning, baby-taking-caring-of-ing(?)...





And if I would ask for his help (ie give the baby a bath so I can sweep and mop the floor without baby crawling all over it) he would whine and complain about how hard his day was, how stressed out I made him, how I didn't appreciate anything he did for us and how I was ungrateful because AAAALLLL i had to do was sit on my lazy *** and WAIT ON HIM TO COME HOME.





well, sometimes when things are that dramatically different you either have to accept it or decide if you can live with it. There simply was no ';arrangement'; with him. I could NOT make a list, he thought that was ';unfair'; (I don't know HOW this is UNFAIR) to him. We couldn't evenly split chores. Partly because it meant he would HAVE to do something all the time, not just GET to do something when he felt like it.





We're separated right now but if we live in the same house EVER I SWEAR we are going to follow a chore list on the fridge just like when we were kids, to keep us (me) from killing each other.
From what you say wife is not doing her job. If she is a stay at home mom, her job is the house and kid(s). It is a tough job, and I know I am not always perfect at it myself, but she most certainly should be doing all the stuff you say you've been doing, as it sounds like you clean the whole house. She should be doing just about all of it, and if you are helping you could be doing things like taking out the garbage or something...but her job is the house! You have your job, and you are doing what you are supposed to be doing by going out and making money to provide for your family's needs. She needs to take care of her family by taking care of the home. My husband works two jobs, and I stay at home with four step kids and a new baby. He helps out where he can, but honestly he isn't even home much, nor do I expect him to do much if any of the housework itself. I am the one home the majority of the time, it's my job! If you want to share in the housework, thats great of you, but don't do it all. You somehow need to lay down the law and get her to understand it is her job to do the majority of these things since she stays home. That is a job in itself, and she needs to take responsibility for it.
My husband works nights and takes care of our baby days. He has been since she was 10 weeks old. I had the summer off and went back last week. What do we do? He keeps up on things while he is home and I clean at night, get our things ready for the next day, etc.





On saturday's we have family housework day- everyone helps. We get it all done- and I mean ALL in about 3 hours. OUr son does the litter box nightly- he is 10 and has had the job since he was 8. So, we all pitch in. We are a team- and we go about our day as a team. Our home is 2100 sq. feet and I can't do it alone. My husband is not that great about putting things away, but has learned- and I don't do the nagging thing. I do the ';sarcastic thing';. Or I ask him to ';find a home for it.';





It has to be a team effort. When our baby was small, I would fold laundry with her in her sling. I always clean the bathrooms and my husband now always folds and hangs the laundry. I vacuum as he moves furniture and runs off with the baby since the sound terrifies her. Our son cleans windows and polishes furniture.





You need to talk with her and devise a plan. i had to do this when our son was small because with me working full-time, him on nights and with an autistic child- our son, it was not getting done. We had arguments too. This way works for us...and it's fun because we put on the tunes and get busy.





Good luck and have a talk about a plan and how to get it done. It shouldn't fall on one person. I would also invest in a dishwasher- you can get a portable one cheap. With all the baby stuff now, you'll need one.





Good luck!

Is it safe if my husband and I cleaned our dryer with Comet?

It's kinda a f*cked up situation..my 2year old son had this purple crayon and it had got in the dryer maybe lost in the sheets or somethin...and there was melted purple wax all over in the dryer %26amp; clothes..my husband put comet on it to make it come off..it did come off but now im scared if i dry clothes will the dryer be ok or will it blow up because of the chemicals from the Comet ??Is it safe if my husband and I cleaned our dryer with Comet?
Wipe it out well with well rinsed damp towel....


Might smell funny at first but should be ok.....run a load of some old rags with a dryer sheet or two in there.





There is nothing flamable.Is it safe if my husband and I cleaned our dryer with Comet?
Won't blow up, but i would run a few loads of wet towels


or somthing u don't care about thru. The comet will go


down into the holes of the dryer and ruin your clothes.
For next time, to remove crayon, lipstick or Chap Stick from the dryer turn it off and spray a paper towel with WD-40 Lubricant. Wipe out the dryer until all of the mess is removed. Wash out with warm water and dishwashing liquid, then dry a load of old wet rags.





Try Carbona Stain Devils to remove chewing gum and glue. For ink, use rubbing alcohol or Ink Away by the makers of Goo Gone.
It couldn't be worse than melted hot gum, that was in my son's pants pockets. I still have a hard baked on gum stain on the inside of my dryer.
I would make sure that the comet is off and Take a rag and water and make sure you wipe all the comet out of the dryer...I doubt very much if your dryer would blow up and I think it will be just fine. The only way you would know is try it and see. You might try putting a couple of wet old towels to test it out..Good Luck to you...
Make sure you clean the Comet off with Vinegar and then get rid of that smell with 2 dryer sheets. Next time get Goo Gone for crayons.
you'll scratch the inside of your dryer if you use comet. Go to the store and buy a product call ';oops';. Better still,call the manufactuer of your dryer and ask them. They would know best.
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No, it won't blow up. Just make sure it is wiped down with a very wet rag. Then, throw some old towels in it to dry. The problem with Comet is that it has bleach in it. So, you don't want to leave any residue in there that will damage your good clothes.
Good luck......ha ha ha
Hmmm, I would have just tried to melt it with a hair dryer, but Comet shouldn't hurt it, as long as you clean your dryer with clean warm water before using it again!
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How can I convince my husband that I am pregnant with his child?

He's had a vasectomy.How can I convince my husband that I am pregnant with his child?
I thought it was mine, when we experimented with that turkey baster. Oh woe is me!How can I convince my husband that I am pregnant with his child?
Oh, this is a yummy and juicy one! Love it!


I think I need to brief Jili on ST ratio calculations. But where we both grade, you get an average of the scores.





Here is my grade for you:


ST ratio 13:1


Extremely high urgency, importance


High humor


High believeability or high non-believeability (could go either way)


High conflict


Good compaction


However, I would compact more with: ';My husband's had a vasectomy. How can I convince him I am pregnant with his child?';


All that would fit in the title. Title compaction supercedes subtitling diffusion.


Low subtitling diffusion


High originality


Excellent style


High volatile cat


Excellent grammar


Good AC





I was gonna give you a 4.7 due to low compaction, but you used the subtitle for a punchline, and that constitutes style and humor. Hence, I bumped you to 4.9.


I think it's your best yet.





4.9





(4.8 + 4.9) / 2 = 4.85 = 4.9 to the nearest tenth
Well not all Vasectomys are 100% hes suppose to go back and make sure it work because it doesnt work all the time. So he could be throwing real ones and thinking there blank. If you were 100% faithful then you should have no problem getting a paternity test when the babys born. But if there is a chance its not his dont make a fool out of your self. You maybe the lucky few that the vasectomy didnt take but its very rare it doesnt
oh goodness that is a good question because i can see why he is skeptical! If you did not cheat on him then i would say a miracle happened! Maybe his vasectomy was faulty like they messed something up! You can check with your doctor about that question and maybe DNA testing. You may be able to have an amniocentesis that has the baby's DNA and test it with your Husbands! good luck and i wish the best for you all!
Medium ST ratio 2:0


Grammar spelling great


High compaction/ compression


High humor


medium shock factor


High believeability


Volatile category


Good subtitling diffusion


Medium unique AC


High volatile cat





Total score 4.8..NICE!





Edit to Doc: You know I can't even balance my own frikkin checkbook and I cannot do math to save my life! So I kinda just guess on the math crap. sorry for my unmathematical lots! ;)
well if u haven't cheated which I'm sure u may not have sice u are trying to convince ur hubby its his baby.. I would have a DNA test done to know for sure.. that is the only way.... also many women haev gotten pregnant with their hubby's still having a vasectomy done.. it IS possible and this is prolly just one of those cases.. best of luck to u hun!!!
Some vasectomies dont work it has happened before. Just ask you husband to go to the doctor and give the doctor a sperm sample if he is not shooting blanks they will be able to tell him form the sample. And he will have to have his vasectomy redone. Best of luck.
i dont get the answers at the end!?! anywayas i think if you were not cheating and youa re for sure pregnant he needs to go to the dr. my mom got pg with my brother after my dad had a vac. the dr said that the things grew back. of couse he was shocked but it does happen. this was twenty years ago so i would think i not too likely to happen now but **** happens! keep us posted!
if he's had a vasectomy i dont think theres any possible way you could be pregnant unless you've had an encounter with someone else...you can convince him with a positive pregnancy test...
Over time a vasectomy can be reversed by reason that the chords can find their way back together and fuse. It's rare.. but it happens. Ease into it and tell him his splooge tastes chunkier than it has for ages.
Are you still using your ';virgin'; stance? Maybe try playing ';like a virgin'; in the background as you tell him that you haven't cheated for SURE... And that maybe it's gods child..... Congrats on your pregnitcy!
Testing........period





1st have your husband take a sperm test. Even though he has been snipped, it can happen that the sperm ducts grew back together. This is extremely rare but can happen.





DNA test.





Best of luck to you
He needs to go to a doctors an deposit some sperm and he'll see that he still has 'active live' sperm.





It happens. My friend just had a post-vasectomy baby.
those can be reversible, or ineffective if not done right. If his having problem accepting the fact then go for a dna test when the baby's born. He should believe you, no questions asked
ask him to go to the doctor%26amp;%26amp;see if there was a chance he mightve slipped even though he got one.


if not get dna testing when the baby is born
that's a hard one ...but tell him if you want a dna test after the baby is born i would be more than willing to give you one..
Semen analysis to show him he still has little swimmers.
you can't, not all testing is 100% accurate. sorry
I guess the only way to really convince him would be a DNA test.
I guess this begs the question - is it his child?
I would start with lots of alcohol.........
DNA test
wow how is it his? ask a DR to explain It If its possible
Whatever you do DON'T show him my picture.





He'll figure it out...on the upside I love kiddies !
go on maury. you'll get a paternity test and a free trip to new york. double win!

Anyone have any ideas about getting by with everyday life without my husband away in the Airforce training?

We have 2 girls aged nearly 3 years old and the other 14 months old. I miss him soooo much and find it hard to do and be everything to our girls! The little one has been very sick lately too. It's going to be 2 weeks till we see him for a week then we leave again for him to do10 more weeks training. Help me cope.Anyone have any ideas about getting by with everyday life without my husband away in the Airforce training?
Sweetheart, my heart goes out to you. Thanks to you and your husband both for your sacrifices to our country. Are there any support groups for military wives in your area? You will find other women who are in the same boat and maybe find some new friends. I remember what it was like when I was a young woman raising two boys alone. ( My husband died at 22) It seemed like some days were endless with two demanding children and little help. But really your kids are little for such a short time. Don't forget to enjoy them too. This will pass, I promise, and someday it will seem like it flew by. Try to get lots of fresh air and sunshine. Take those girls to a nearby park if you can. Pamper yourself sometimes. Prayer or meditation will help your stress level. Lots of luck to you.Anyone have any ideas about getting by with everyday life without my husband away in the Airforce training?
YOU CAN DO IT!!! My husband has been gone for a year. We have a 2 1/2 year old son and I'm all he has. We have no family here, but my girlfriends have been a miracle!! They listen and help out whenever I need it. And I've only left him with a babysitter once. Don't be afraid to ask friends and family for a helping hand. Some day care facilities offer hourly drop-in service. Try that. It's usually relatively inexpensive and it will benefit you mentally, physically, and emotionally!!!! I know it's hard, but you can do it. If you need to talk, contact me at pezdispenser80@yahoo.com. Good luck!
Go to the nearest base and see the family support center and let them know your situation. If you need child care help they will be willing to help you, if you need something financially I am pretty sure they will send you to the right direction. Make sure you get your family and friends involved to when i wen to my basic training my son was just 4 months old and my wife network with her family and friends for help.





Don't be afraid to ask for help if you need it. Young couple find it hard to ask for help, i've been in the AF for 6 years and came across with this type of situation use every available resources.





The family support center has program for moms with play groups for kids and enlisted spouse programs that will aid your family. tons of help, just need to ask.





SSGT, USAF
if you cannot cope with him in basic..how are you going to cope with him being deployed to iraq? you have got to grow a pair and be a mother to those kids..and when he calls do not lay all this on him..because he misses you all too but he doesnt need to hear how hard your life is at the moment... a deployment with my husband being gone..and me with our two kids..has went like this.. my son wisdom teeth taken out, my son colitis from wisdom teeth medicine..which resulted in multiple dr visits...the washer went out.. the ice maker on the fridge did serious damage to our floor, the lawn mower broke, our cat had to be put to sleep, the sun roof on the truck tore up, the battery in another car died, someone beat my mailbox off the post twice, my kids were in marching band and at practice and comps..i worked 45 minutes away from their school...if you cant handle him being in the states at training how are you going to do it when he is thousands of miles away? because its only going to get harder...
Surround yourself with family..trust me Hun time will fly by so fast %26amp; soon you'll be preping for deployment which btw is 6 months or longer it all depends. Our daughter was 10 months when my hubby left for basic (AF) so he missed her 1st birthday, of course he was sad. But there are more birthdays to come. Just be strong for your children, he will be in your arms sooner than you think. Take care..
You need to get in touch with the other wives that are having to cope with the same thing, a support network is vital.


Women need to talk to other women, and looking after 4 kids between 2 adults, or more, is a great deal easier.


I prefer to go to a parent-run pre-school for not precisely the same reason but definitely getting more support, and also to get to know other women in this area.
While I can understand it's hard, he DOES get to come home in 2 weeks and then only has 10 weeks left. Just be glad it's not a 6 to 9 month deployment.

How can I convince my husband that neutering our dog is a GOOD idea?!?

I really want to get our male dog fixed, but husband feels ';offended'; by this because the dog will lose his ';manhood';.





He believes that the puppies that result from a doggie affair are someone else problem (thus the reason we got a male dog).





PLEASE HELP!





I need some convincing arguements on the benefit of giving my dog the ';Bob Barker'; treatment.How can I convince my husband that neutering our dog is a GOOD idea?!?
Just tell him that someone is getting neutered. Either him or the dog.How can I convince my husband that neutering our dog is a GOOD idea?!?
Although neutering is most common there are other ways to prevent a male dog from fathering puppies. You can actually have a vasectomy done (its used alot in zoos on the male wolves, as it will prevent them from fathering pups but won't alter their maleness). There is also an injection that can be given directly into the scrotum that will cause the testes to shrivel up. If you want either of these done you may have to do a bit of research to fing a veterinarian who will do them, but its an option if you absolutely can not convince your husband that its a good idea to neuter your doggy.
Well, you dog can get cancer from not being neutered.
if you don't intend to breed the dog with a reputable breeder not getting him neutered is asking for health problems, as there are many different problems that can arise from not having this surgery...I suggest discussing this with your vet.
Yes I agree if you're not planning on breeding the dog, Fix it, I have 4 females 2 fixed 2 not 'cause we're breeding them I think it's horrible that your husband believes that if your dog knocks up another dog it's not his problem....indeed it is, any vet will tell you ro fix your dogs you don't want problems
Having your dog neutered is really best for the dogs health. It can help prevent cancer and other illnesses. Besides that dogs don't feel ';manhood'; and your husband is just being selfish. There are so many unwanted pets in the world why chance your dog getting into trouble and bringing in even more.
WHAT ARE THE HEALTH BENEFITS TO THE DOG?





There are several health benefits to neutering. One of the most important concerns the prostate gland, which under the influence of testosterone will gradually enlarge over the course of the dog's life. In age, it is likely to become uncomfortable, possibly being large enough to interfere w/defecation. The prostate under the influence of testosterone is also predisposed to infection which is almost impossible to clear up without neutering. Neutering causes the prostate to shrink into insignificance thus preventing both prostatitis as well as the uncomfortable benign hyperplasia (enlargement) that occurs with aging. It is often erroneously held that neutering prevents prostate cancer but this is not true.





Other health benefits of neutering include the prevention of certain types of hernias and tumors of the testicles and anus. Excessive preputial discharge is also reduced by neutering.





WHAT BEHAVIORAL CHANGES CAN BE EXPECTED AFTER NEUTER?





The only behavior changes that are observed after neutering relate to behaviors influenced by male hormones. Playfulness, friendliness, and socialization with humans are not changed. The behaviors that change are far less desirable. The interest in roaming is eliminated in 90 percent of neutered dogs. Aggressive behavior against other male dogs is eliminated in 60 percent of neutered dogs. Urine marking is eliminated in 50 percent of neutered male dogs. Inappropriate mounting is eliminated in 70 percent of neutered dogs.





WHAT EXACTLY IS DONE SURGICALLY?





An incision is made generally just forward from the scrotum. The testicles are removed through this incision. The stalks are tied off and cut. Castration is achieved. If the testicles are not removed, the desirable benefits listed above cannot be achieved. The skin incision may or may not have stitches.
Neutering adds years to a dog's life and prevents many types of cancers, wouldn't your husband want your dog to have the longest lifespan possible?





Neutering also curbs behavioral problems, like humping legs, aggressiveness, and leaping the fence (and possibly getting ht by a car, stolen, or turned into animal control) if he smells a female in heat.





Dogs who are not neutered will also feel the urge to mark their territory by urinating on anything and everything.
Neutering is a socially responsible act that your hubby should take seriously. If he beleives that because it is the female dogs owners that end up with the problem and he shouldnt need to worry about it then he is just being irresponsible and should not have got a dog at all!





It wont change the dog's 'manhood' - it will make your dog easier to train, better around kids, more reliable to not attack your family or a stranger, and easier overall to manage. He wont stray and will be less likely to spray/mark all over the house.





When done young the dog wouldn't know any different - just do it before the man-dog responses are too deep rooted.
i got this from a website:


Spayed animals no longer feel the need to roam to look for a mate. The result is that they stay home and have less chance of being involved in traumatic accidents such as being hit by a car. They also have a much lower incidence of contracting contagious diseases, and get into fewer fights.





In males, neutering decreases the chances of developing prostatic disease and hernias, and eliminates the chances of developing testicular cancer. It also reduces problems with territorial and sexual aggression, inappropriate urination (spraying) and other undesirable male behaviors.





the simple fact is that spaying and neutering greatly increases the lifespan of your pet and increases quality of life as well!





that only that i think(not 100% sure) he wont go marking his territory in the house and making it smell
Aside from the major health advantages, of being assured of a 50% average longer lifespan, your husband needs to know that dogs take no pride in their family jewels..he will only notice that the spot is sore for a few days..nothing else...


Remind him that ALL K-9 cops are altered! Who would ever call them sissies? As are all guide dogs, and certified assistance dogs.


bomb sniffers, drug busters, etc..


the dog has a much better focus for training once they have been neutered..





as for health issues, they aren't as likely to escape and get hit by a car, or battle other males for a female in heat..they can't get testicular cancer, and the risk is reduced for many other cancers that are fed by testosterone.
Take your husband on a field trip to one of the more crowded local animal shelters and let them show him exactly what happens to all those products of ';doggie affairs'; that he doesn't think will be his responsibility if your dog produces them. It might also help him to know that neutering will help your dog to be a little less territorial so he won't be lifting his leg on your leather couch when he reaches adulthood. It will also help to keep him from becoming aggressive if a female dog (who's owners have also been irresponsible) goes into heat in your neighborhood. A male dog can smell a female in heat from a mile away.
I went through the same thing with my boyfriend. In our case I put my foot down and said it had to be done. But to back you up: Getting a dog neutered prevents potential puppies from occurring if the dog should get out. Most dog owners will require you to help pay the bills for said puppies. Also as dogs age, like humans, their genital organs can start to develop illnesses and cancer. As dogs age bladder and kidney infections are especially common. Which is very costly to take care of and can require surgery. Neutering helps to minimize the occurrence of these problems. Finally, they are simply removing the dogs testicles, nothing else. If your dog is young, ideally less than a year, there will be no residual effects or changes. Recovery takes a few days. And if the dog is young it will lessen the aggressive behaviors that develop at about eight months and make training easier. I hope that is enough and helpful. Good luck.
Maybe if you let know that there are healthy benefits to neurtering:





Dogs are much happier when their hormones are not raging.





A neuteured dog will not be as inclined to wander the streets seeking out a female and risking getting hit by a car, bus; or being mistreated by a stranger out in the streets.





Eliminates the risk of penile tumors.





Also, makes for a calmer dog that you can enjoy even more.





Hope this helps.
Sorry...your husband is not at all thinking with the right (end).


A set of n-ts doesn't make HIM a man or any manlier either.
I have the same problem, I don't think there is anyway to convince a man that cutting out gonads is a good idea!! Unless you show him the jerry springer episode where the woman ';married'; her dog!!!!
If he thinks it's the female dog owners problem then take him to a local pound or shelter to see the dozens of dogs that will be euthanized in a week or so because someone else thought it was the female dog owner's problem.





If he likes dogs then he will understand. Spaying/neutering your dog is a service to dogkind and mankind.
Neuter him first!

How can I make my husband jealous?

This probably sounds really juvenile.. but my husband and I are separated and I miss him terribly. I wish we cold get back together. Lots of people have told me I need to make him jealous.





Is this a good or bad idea and how should I go about doing it?How can I make my husband jealous?
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http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/22425001/vp/鈥?/a>How can I make my husband jealous?
Very bad idea, childish and inmature. Don't count on tapping a guy's ego by making him jealous, this is not a proof of love, its an ego issue. I learned that with my ex who never loved me and was being unfaithful to me. We were separated, like you, and I went to the club I knew he was at and started to dance with this guy and my ex came up to him and the bouncers had to remove him from the club. Result, he was still the same jerk who did not love me, what made him jump was his ego, not his love. Be smart and move on.
no, not a good idea. whats the final outcome you want here?





you are in need of attention, but you think jealous attention is healthy?


no, its not.





if you need attention, have you tried calling him to talk about working at your marriage? i imagine if you are separated and not divorced then there is still a chance at this marriage.... if so, call him up and ask him to dinner or cofee so you can talk. be active and work at this, don't sit back and plot out evil jealousy plans. thats probably why you separated in the first place, you are not going about things maturely.
Yeah, it does sound juvenile. Sounds like you need more mature friends if the ones you have are telling you that making him jealous is a good way to get him back. This is not 7th grade. It's life as an adult with a real, adult problem. If you want him back you need to do it the way an adult would. Go and talk to him. Tell him that you miss him and you want to give it another shot.
Don't try to make him jealous. Watch the movie Fire Proof. Seriously do it. It has some super great ways to tell him how much he means ot you and making him jealous is not one of them. i have to say that is the best movie i have ever seen. My husband feels the same way. A tad cheesey at the five minutes but watch it to the end. Making him jealous will only feul the fire that you are trying to put out. Would you want him to make you jealous? no, you would be hurt by that. You don't need to add more pain to what is already there.
Appear to be living well (even if you are miserable) and have social engagements with girl friends etc. Look your best.....work at that....buy some new clothes and be good company when you do see him and always close the meeting or phone call before he does when on a good note or having just had a good laugh together about something. This will ahve him missing you far more tahn playing games of dating someone else. (that would not work)
If you do anything that looks like you are talking to other guys, he will assume youre moving on with your life, and he will wont come back, thinking you dont want him anymore.


You need to find him and spill your heart out to him. Let him know this is not easy for you and that youve been missing him. Dont even think up what to say, just say whatever comes out when you see him, so it will be real.


If he rejects what you say, then you start looking.
I don't know if you need to make him jealous as much as you need to make him miss you. That can be accomplished by just giving you both some time to sort things out instead of pursuing him.





Sometimes problems get so intense that men tend to withdraw, especially if they are getting lots of pressure from us.





sorry, i know this is prob a tough one to be in. my heart goes out to you.
Bad idea. If you really want him back you need to have a serious conversation with him. Missing him is not necessarily a good reason to get back together and trying to make him jealous may actually backfire and make him feel more inclined not to get back together.
Juvenile, yes. Likely to have a positive outcome? No .





Those people I'm sure are women. The best way to get him back is to go to him and tell him you want him back, and to treat him with the respect and love that might work.





That takes GUTS. Making him jealous is the coward's way.
If you want to temporarily patch things then perhaps this could work; however, in the long run it's not going to for this reason alone. I say give him space and redefine you are without him; if he comes back on his on (and he very well could) you'll have more to offer for the both of you!
If you know where he is on a certain night show up there hanging all over a stud and when he notices you take off with the other man and when he tries to call your cell don't answer it for a couple hours make him think the stud is doing you.. Pretend you never saw him.
Bad idea. Focus your energy on yourself and only yourself. Go to the gym, meditate, take a walk, read books, go to church etc. He will come back on his own or he wont. At least you know it has nothing to do with you. You are working to be healthy in mind, body and spirit.
And will making him jealous bring him back forever? NO.





Why did he leave you?





Fix those problems, and maybe he will come back to you. I can see why he maybe doesn't want to be with you and those childish ways.





Sorry to say.





Good luck though.
it will jus make him angry watch the movie break up c it didnt work.. write him a sexy email show him he is a big part a u life and u want to be with him cuz u luv and care for him and you wont give up on he love da easily.





wish u luck
It's a bad idea. You should want your husband to be with you because he misses you and loves you, not because he's jealous. That's not going to bring him home for the right reasons and it's juvenile.
Invite him over for dinner open a condom and spit snot in it and leave a pair of your panties laying on the floor next to it before he gets there.





If he can be violent had a weapon close by.
You're right it is very juvenile and can backfire in a bad way. The best way to get him back is to figure out why he left and do better for yourself.
No that might cahase him away.. try and ask him out on a date. Make it a night that the both of you have never done before.
Inciting jealousy in a man is not a smart thing to do because jealousy quickly turns to anger in men.
Bad idea and most likely gonna backfire on you. If you want him back, get him to come back the right way.... because he loves you and misses you.
Grow the hell up and just tell him how you feel. It may or may not work but at least your acting like a grown woman.
If you sleep around you will either make him jealous or very mad. Think about it.
Best way to make your husband jealous - start seeing a Divorce Lawyer!
i think it's a bad idea. trying to make him jealous could make things worse.
get yourself a ';girlfriend.'; that outta do it.
Take your clothes off for the Gardner.
Come and See me.
get a makeover and suggest a few drinks.


drag up old memories and just have a good time. :)
Bad idea! Just talk to him honestly and tell him how you feel.
ignore him - as though you are not interested


he will see the light

How can I get my husband back from Trinidad after being deported.?

My husband was recently deported to Trinidad after serving 6 months jail for an aggrevated felony. He decided to go to trinidad instead of staying in jail and now he cannot file another appeal on his case. Does anyone know what I can do to get him back in the United States. ThanksHow can I get my husband back from Trinidad after being deported.?
Nothing you can do. His felony charge made him ineligible to return to the US.How can I get my husband back from Trinidad after being deported.?
I am from Trinidad myself, I have to tell you whether or not he stayed %26amp; served his sentence, as soon as he was released he would have been deported anyway. Once he wasn't a CITIZEN of the US. It's very unfortunate; your situation, I know you've probably built a life here but there's nothing you can do now except pray for a miracle %26amp; believe God for it to come true. I say this in the sincerest way, right now, your husband needs your support; for better or for worst (in this case worst) I think u should organize yourself so that you can be together.
The aggravated felony provision of the U.S. Immigration and Nationality Act was was intended to provide for the deportation of non-citizens convicted of very serious crimes.





Over the last 15 years, however, the provision has been consistently expanded to include minor crimes.





Congress has categorically prohibited aggravated felons from applying for discretionary, equitable relief.





Therefore, there is no relief available to your husband.
One down, several million to go. He didn't have respect for our laws, and instead of choosing to pay the consequences, he left. How nice.
It depends on how long he was banned for, perhaps he has a lifetime ban, in which case, he will never be able to come back. Your best bet would to join him in his own country.
I'm sorry, but there is nothing you can do, except immigrate to Trinidad.
well that's what you get for breaking are laws sorry but i guess you have to go live in trinidad good luck
Nothing. You'll have to leave him there, or go there yourself if you want to be together.

Is it illegal to send a picture of your breast to your husband?

My parents and brother both have differernt opinions on this... so i wanted to ask. if your married, would it be illegal to send a picture of your ';stuff'; to your spouse?Is it illegal to send a picture of your breast to your husband?
No, not illegal but not wise. It's too easy for others to acquire such photos. How would you feel if your family saw such pics? Your kids? Your clergy? Your boss or coworkers? They can surface years later and be held against you...mess up career opportunities, relationships, etc.





ONLY take and send such photos if you are 100% sure you don't care who on the planet sees them, or when.Is it illegal to send a picture of your breast to your husband?
It is not illegal if you are over the legal age but some folks will think it is unethical to do it. He is your husband and that will bring him some excitement.
uhh no


why would it be???





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No.





If your married then definatly no.
no ofcourse not. if your under 18 then it's considered child porn. but other than that it's not a big deal.
No. But why stop at a breast?
not at all.you make the decision to do it of your own free will.

What kind of dog would be a good choice for small children?Husband?

I am totally open to mixed breeds, but I want a somewhat medium sized dog. Also, I can't have a dog with heavy shedding, as my husband is allergicWhat kind of dog would be a good choice for small children?Husband?
Most DEFINATELY A GREYHOUND!! I am absolutely amazed at how great they are with children. They are very calm and shedding is no problem at all. Even better-- you can adopt a retired racer, but make sure you have a fenced in yard where they have room to excercise!What kind of dog would be a good choice for small children?Husband?
jack russel terrior
I have had scotties since I was 5! They are great dogs, and loads of fun. Just would reccomend them for you only if your children are over 5. They are kind to toddlers, because they sit and seem to know that the person touching them is just a baby, but they just do better with older kids.
poodle. small and medium sizes and doesn't shed!
weenie dogs are great
We have a Standard Poodle, she just loves everyone that includes kids of ';all'; sizes. Poodles don't shed, are hyoallergenic and never smell. Plus they are really smart !
Jack Russells are wonderful dogs, for the right people. Not for children, though. They require more attention and supervision than a family with little ones could ever give them.


You should possibly try a breed like a Bichon, who has hair as opposed to fur, which means less allergic reactions. Or, if you can keep from laughing at them, a Chinese crested is a nice dog. If your kids are very small though, try getting a larger dog, they can handle the abuse the kids will dish out better than a small dog who will be more easily injured during rough housing.


Border collies are nice dogs, but I've never owned one, just knew some, so I don't know how they shed.
Oh well a Jack rusel terrier is the popular but they are way too wild. You should get a yellow lab. They are medium-large and don't have too much shedding as long as you brush them everyday for 15 minuites. They are awesome with kids and small ones. They are calm and loyal to their owner.
This web site rates dogs compatibility to children.
american staffordshire terrier !! check them out in the ';complete book of dogs'; at libraRY
go here


http://animal.discovery.com/breedselecto鈥?/a>


It is a small quiz, but it will tell you exactly what you want.
Rottweiller. GREAT with kids. My Rott loves kids and is very tolerable. I had researched this topic and found rotts to be the best. Very high tolerance levels and they are protective of the kids and parents. Get one as a puppy. And be mindful of his temperment. Go to a well known breeder anddo some research on your own. My rott is well behaved and has been trained. He does not shed lots and is active.


When i got him i had him around people ALL the time and took him everywhere.
Pugs. I believe that out of the three varieties (fawn, chocolate, black), two of the three have little or no sheadding. Pugs are very good family dogs, becomeing very loyal to the family. Very playful, good with kids.
pit bull.
a collie
a king charles are great pets and good with children .i have a terrier mix myself and i think most mixed breeds have a good temperament.the most important thing is to get a puppy as they will grow up with the children and get used to them.
Italion greyhound is the perfect dog. Loves people and short hair. Will not be too big or small and your children will be safe. They are family pets.
Beagles are good, even tempered dogs and generally good around children. They do not shed much- but all dogs shed some.
a lab is great with kids, and they have short hair, we had two, they are excellent pets, love the water and to play frisbee, and ball....very friendly!!!!
Malamute, black lab, newfoundland (lotsa drool and hair but very sweet) samoyans, etc.

After making love with my husband,when he pulls out i noticedd that the sperm comes out,i need to get pregnant?

I need to be prehgaant,Hope everything didnt come out and is it normal.After making love with my husband,when he pulls out i noticedd that the sperm comes out,i need to get pregnant?
✿¤·ஐ After sex you're suppose to stay lying down and put your pelvis up for at least 5-20 minutes to let gravity do it's thing. ✿¤·ஐAfter making love with my husband,when he pulls out i noticedd that the sperm comes out,i need to get pregnant?
Hope you know your ovulation days. Those two days are most Crucial ones. Try to do it from rear side and once he cums let him hang in there for few mins.. and once he feels everything is out in you. He can slowly pull it out.





You can then lie down with your legs up keeping a pillow bellow your hip. Stay in that position for 15-20 mins.





You should conceive in a weeks time if all goes well.





Consult your doctor for any other problems. You guys should get yourselves checked as well.
Don’t worry..believe me the same thing happens for me..after we make love the sperm runs out but it is still in there..I got pregnant..sadly I had a miscarriage but there is still hope..you can also try elevating your hips with a pillow..that helps the sperm run to your cervix
Hi, i think you should try lying still for a while after and maybe try putting a pillow or cushion under small of back, or under bum to raise you up!
If only that was true, i wouldn't have to spend a fiver on condoms every week.
theres still some in there. just dont get up to quick after. if you lay there for ten minutes that can help.

What do you think about that Mary Winkler woman who killed her husband and those stripper shoes?

Did she get away with murder like OJ who also tried to vilify his wife or was she a victim?What do you think about that Mary Winkler woman who killed her husband and those stripper shoes?
She absolutely did. I don't think a husband trying to get his wife to dress up and be more womanly is abuse. I can totally understand why he would want her to be more feminine. She looks like a boy, and not a very attractive one at that.What do you think about that Mary Winkler woman who killed her husband and those stripper shoes?
First: I think her remarks were unfair towards strippers, sluts and shoes.





Second: She killed her husband. BUT, she admitted it! Something OJ will never do.

What do you think about that Mary Winkler woman who killed her husband and those stripper shoes?

Did she get away with murder like OJ who also tried to vilify his wife or was she a victim?What do you think about that Mary Winkler woman who killed her husband and those stripper shoes?
She absolutely did. I don't think a husband trying to get his wife to dress up and be more womanly is abuse. I can totally understand why he would want her to be more feminine. She looks like a boy, and not a very attractive one at that.What do you think about that Mary Winkler woman who killed her husband and those stripper shoes?
First: I think her remarks were unfair towards strippers, sluts and shoes.





Second: She killed her husband. BUT, she admitted it! Something OJ will never do.

Have you ever caught your husband picking his nose AND eating it?

I am curious because this just happened to me, and it's the 3rd time I've seen him do it in the last couple of months. Well, this time I confronted him about it, and said, 'OMG you just ate a booger!'; to which he turned extremely red and then got very angry at me. Has this happened to any of you, and how did you handle it?Have you ever caught your husband picking his nose AND eating it?
My ex use to pick his nose, then roll them and put them in a nice neat pile on the coffee table so when I would go around and clean I would find the pile and want to throw up, it was the biggest turn off and I am so glad that he is gone.Have you ever caught your husband picking his nose AND eating it?
haha wow. I would have to say something about that with the quickness and would probably have handled it the same way you did. After all, its his mothers fault for not saying something to him about when he was kid.
No, it never has.


But I'd find it EXTREMELY disturbing, and I'd tell him if I ever saw it again, I'd be out the door. That is one of the most disgusting habits I have ever heard of!
Yes. It's a childhood habit he tries to break but has never been successful. He does it unconsciously. When I point it out, He goes and gets Listerine. It grosses him out,too.
My husband does it too but won't admit it when i catch him..I have also noticed his younger sister doing that too..I think its just sick.. lol
I don't believe I could ever kiss him again.


Point it out to him every time he does it. If he gets mad, so what! I would be mad at him for being so immature!
That is vile.
tell him thats its nasty and you dont like it. thats soooooooooooo disturbing. i did if when i was a kid but stopped when i was about 9 or so
I SERIOUSLY just threw up a little in my mouth.





If this isn't grounds for a divorce I have no idea what is.
u made him look and feel retarded. you should be ashamed of it. you handled it the wrong way. so what if he does? look away when he does it. ur making way too much of it.

Anyone ever succeed in getting husband to do more chores?

Anyone make their man less lazy around the house and do more cleaning and housework? Mine fights it all the way and I've pretty much given up on trying? For ex. I ask him to sweep the kitchen floor while I do the dishes and he just sweeps the broom around, collects nothing, and goes back to the tv?Anyone ever succeed in getting husband to do more chores?
Appeal to his sense of fairness. He'll eventually get it.Anyone ever succeed in getting husband to do more chores?
There are two reasons why he麓s lazy. One is because he probably grew up being lazy, had someone done everything for him, never got educated that men do have chores to do and pretty much just lived life that way! Second reason is because you haven麓t set the rules from the start if your marriage and now he麓s gotten used to you ending up doing his job!


Solutions: talk to him about this and let him know things need to change, or you will change. In what way will you change? Well, you will stop from doing his laundry and food! Because you need to make him realize that marriage is about two, and everything that needs to get done should be equally shared. Him bringing the money in is not one of them since you work through all day as well.


Set rules in the house just like you would for your business. Do you let employees sit around doing nothing? Do you let customers come in and go without buying your product? Do you let your competition bring down prices while yours are still high? No! You don麓t! Because you organize your business and try to mantain it to keep it alive and profitable! It麓s the same with marriage! You make rules and you follow them in order to mantain it and keep it alive or it starts to go down.


Rules are important, and not military kind of rules, you know what I mean. Your husband needs toughness...from you!!!
Ew no! Don't avoid sex, that hurts you too.


Look, if he was like this when you married him chances are this is just the way he is. It may be something you happen to deal with honestly. Have you tried expressing your distress with him? You know '; hey hubby vacuum the carpet for me while I do the laundry, it would help me out a lot! ';


Dint work?


It helps to wear something sexy too. Like do the dishes in just a long shirt. He's always more willing to help when he can get a good stare at nice. I had an ex that NEVER helped out, I did everything and hated it. I realized with-holding sex made him worse! He's an ex now so my problem is solved, my husband is a military man so he's always tidy.


Good luck.
Time for you to play the same game. Come home sit in lounge and watch tv make yur own meals not his and enulate everything he does but don't do anything for him washing included.





After a day or 2 he'll ask whats wrong and you have to say 50/50 in everthing or your fending for your self. I cook you wash up I iron you was, you mow and Ill sweep 50/50


take about 2 weeks and watch the change. good luck
You sound just like my wife...lol...she does the same thing except I get up and do small chores without much grumbling but she says that's not enough, that I should just do them without her having to ask...from what I've seen women are never satisfied so we might as well do nothing since whatever we do is never good enough...
I don't have to do anything. My husband does everything I do except cooking. He makes the salad but that's as far as he goes. But it's only fair because I don't touch the garden; he's completely in charge of it as I am of the kitchen.
If you are working too, he should help you with chores, equally, you have to talk to him about it. If doesn't work, still be nice and loving with him..just don't do the work, just kinda sign of protesting. If he complains, ask for a helper, then problem solved.
Stop cleaning. If he wants it clean, he'll clean it. Or, like my husband, get us a cleaning lady:) Either way, it's a win win.
I'm a guy and I'll tell you what worked. She told me plain and simple. If I don't start helping out with household chores then I'm not allowed to touch her ever. You know what I mean.
Explain the situation, discuss it and let him know his behavior has consequences (works everytime for me)!
1. Don't have sex with him.


2. Don't have sex with him.


3. Don't have sex with him. Ever.
DO NOT HAVE SEX WITH HIM FOR 2 YEARS! Then trust me he will be doing everything for you! I should know I have not cleaned for already 2yrs...
Ask Politely or get a maid once in a while.





Or Abstinence
Questions like this will make a girl want to stay single for a long, LONG time, LOL!!!
we share the jobs equally . it just takes communication and cooperation
That only proves that he's a real man...
I offer him sex, that gets him goin.
I'm curious to see if there is anything that works! haha My hubbys' sitting right here and said ';offer him a bj'; --LOL

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How do you get your husband to forget traumatic images that bother him ?

You can't get your husband to forget traumatic images.


These are haunting him and need to be dealt with.


Once he looks at his trauma, he can find ways to better cope with it.


He can make choices about managing the trauma.


Therapy can be helpful for this. Best Wishes to you and your husband.How do you get your husband to forget traumatic images that bother him ?
You don't! He will not forget. Repressing memories is NOT a good thing.


I suffered such severe trauma in my childhood that I assumed alter personalities and was diagnosed with BPD and DID. I am trying to actually recover these memories (thru therapy) so that the ';images'; that hinder me can be reconciled. The best thing you can do is just be there for him and be understanding. I bet his actions during the times where it is bothering him affects your marriage. Just understand that its like a disease. You wouldn't let cancer come between you two would you?How do you get your husband to forget traumatic images that bother him ?
Emotional freedom technique by Gary Craig has been shown to help quite a bit with removing the trauma of traumatic memories. In his DVD series he shows some Vietnam vets that were haunted with horrible images. After just a few sessions many were able to calmly discuss their war experience.





For more info on EFT see my article: http://www.natural-healing-coach.com/eft鈥?/a>








Mike
Could be PTSD. He should see an pychiatrist (MD) or a psycologist (PhD) for couseling or medication to help him get through the trauma.


Time, medication and therapy are your best bets.


Good luck;



http://www.getovertrauma.com/page3/page3鈥?/a>





http://emotionaltrauma.org/
Just wants to add...





Lots of patient, faith, care and, of course, love.






lots and lots of counseling.

How can I get my husband to stop farting!!?!??!??!!?

My husband knows that I think that farting is the nastiest thing that anybody could do and he still farts! Ive talked to him about it and I cant seem to get made enough to where he gets the point!!! Im so sick and tired of it...What should I do?How can I get my husband to stop farting!!?!??!??!!?
Get over it and accept the fact that farting is fun. Just join in and challenge him to a fart contest. lolHow can I get my husband to stop farting!!?!??!??!!?
Everyone farts, it's a natural bi-product of the bacteria that are living in your intestines. They release gases (methane, etc.) and when the build up creates too much pressure, it needs somewhere to escape. So it's released.





To get him to stop farting all together is impossible. Just tell him you're not comfortable with him farting near you, and tell him if possible to fart away from you.
Getting mad won't help. I never do this, but I was brought up differently. Its a matter of education and how parents teach their kids. In my house it was very poor taste and only acidentally done. We went to the bathroom or private bedroom.





Given that it is common practice for him this means that you will have a big problem correcting this. A talking to at an adult level could help, but given his current lack of respect to you about it, perhaps not.





An alternative might be to cause a scene. Like you farting when his friend is over !





I know it sounds bad, and you'll have a time doing that, but males are visual learners. We learn by example. When he sees how much in poor taste that is then he might get the hint.





Other fould habits are using foul language. Or try filming the even and then playing it back when his mom visits... Make it what it is... Foul. There are sevveral levels you can go with this. Care must be taken that he does no end up enjoying the event. Low life males can go for that. Like burping up beer and hitting a female. All these things are very bad. This is why dating is so important. We find out if we are compatible before we tie these knots.





Hope this helps some.
Wow, I guess with your stupid question you want an equally stupid answer. Ok, get a cork and hammer and close his anus.





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You should keep telling him not to be humam or tell him to stop eating like you have because obviously you don't pass gas ever. Or remove his intestenal track!
Eat some nasty stuff and then fart silently at the dinner table while he's eating and keep farting like that until he says he gives up.





Fight fire with fire, I always say.
Eat something that will make you fart heaps and make you farts really stinky and then when hes around let rip. :)
Its a perfectly normal function for a human. Just get over it.
Tell him no sex unless he stops farting so much.
Cutt off the sex until he stops the habit. I dont fart around my wife at al, it's low class!!
stick something in the whole everytime he does it see if he doesnt stiop after that

Will the BNP deport the husband and offspring of Elizabeth Regina?

All the offspring of Elizabeth Regina have been sired by a Greek!Will the BNP deport the husband and offspring of Elizabeth Regina?
Could be... you never know with the BNP.





Hey Choccy fish boy... yep, it's all nasty malicious rumour against the whiter than white (no pun intended, honest guv) British National Party.


You fail to mention that no one from the EU would have automatic entitlement to live here as your party wishes withdrawal from the European Union. That would mean every EU citizen currently legally working here would have to apply for the relevant work permits; and just how many do you honestly think would get them? Ditto for anyone not white wishing to come here to work or get educated.





You ain't fooling everyone, Choc. You're just being highly economical with the truth.Will the BNP deport the husband and offspring of Elizabeth Regina?
there is a fair chance they will get deported ,why .as they can not put up a good legal fight for there right to stay.


we live in free and democratic society and it sickens me when those that decry our way of life then use there human rights act to save them from deportation back to there place of birth .
Don't be stupid comrade, our Royal Family are all British citizens, although you could argue that Prince Phillip is civically British, and not an indigenous Briton. In fact, I hope he is as proud of his Heritage, as I am of mine.
No.





Most people agree about deporting serious foreign criminals from the UK. There is no need to give out British citizenship so easily.
anyone here legally who pays there taxes and obeys the law will be allowed to stay..........all this bull about deporting everyone not white is just left wing propoganda to stop u voting BNP
Well, Mark 'Young, Nazi and Proud' has already stated that the BNP would get rid of them all because 'They're not German enough'! lol
Another bunch of illegal immigrants, so yes they quite possibly will.
No....When it comes to deporting Queens they would prefer Lord Mandelson.

What would happen if my husband left his gun in my car, clip out. in an unlocked box in front seat in FLorida?

What would happen to me if my husband left his hand gun, unloaded but with full clip next to it in an unlocked box in my front seat while I was entering a military base? He has a conceiled weapons lic. ...I don't. We live in the state of FLorida.What would happen if my husband left his gun in my car, clip out. in an unlocked box in front seat in FLorida?
DOD regulations prohibit privately owned weapons from even being on base unless they have been registered with base security. Even if registered you can't transport a weapon on base except from the approved storage location, usually the armory, to the target range.





If you did inadvertently have a gun in the car I would suggest you inform them at the gate. On the seat, in the glove box or in the trunk, it makes no difference. I suspect they will store the weapon until your husband returned to show his license. The last thing you want to happen is have them find it during a search.





The link is specifically for Malstrom AFB but the same regulations exist at all bases.What would happen if my husband left his gun in my car, clip out. in an unlocked box in front seat in FLorida?
You would probably have an uncomfortable few hours, or even longer.


I think the military would take charge if you were on the base. Then


if you actually did break a law they would turn you over to civilian police also.
You would be arrested if they asked you to open the box........
Why would u drive with the gun laying on the front seat? I would be careful with it if he's not around!