Thursday, July 29, 2010

How similar is your Husband and your Father?

I heard that a woman subconsciously chooses a man who resembles her father. How true do you really think this is?





What are the major SIMILARITIES and DIFFERENCES between your Father and your HUSBAND?How similar is your Husband and your Father?
Actually my boyfriend and my dad don't have much in common. They both have dark hair and eyes but that's about it.


My boyfriend sees Aisling every day. Meanwhile my dad has been in and out of my life since the start. Almost seeming like he acknowledges me when it's convenient to him. I'm not complaining though, I've learned over the years, that I'm better off without him.


Plus my boyfriend did the typical experimenting with drugs as a teenager while my dad is a 42 year old stoner.


I'll admit that he has gotten better since I was born but there is no way I would compare my boyfriend to him. Their similarities stop at the same eye and hair colours.How similar is your Husband and your Father?
My husband and my father are identical in personality.





The only difference is my husband is dark skinned and my dad is white Hubby tall and skinny, Dad well rounded and tall. LOL.





Every single thing that my mum complains about with my dad, I complain about with my hubby.





* Everything will be done ';tomorrow';.


* If something is brought inside, it is dumped in the closest doorway.


* They both do things for others even when they don't want to.


* They both take a lot to push into a temper, but when they do, boy do they go off.


* They don't listen when you are talking to them.





I had 5 long term relationships before my husband, and none of the ex's were anything like my dad - guess that is why they never became my husband : )





I have to say, I never looked for a man like my dad and didn't even realize how alike they were before we married, but now that I have found him, I wouldn't trade him for the world and when I get upset with my hubby, I stop myself, think of how alike he is to my dad and then remember why I love them both so much... I consider myself a very lucky girl to have them both in my life and hope that my son grows up to be half the man that his daddy and grandpa are : )
Honestly, the only thing that popped into my head was that they are both hard working men. They provide for their family and take pride in that. Well, they also both have a sense of humor. My husband is just more ';open'; about his, I guess.





My dad did teach me what to look for in a husband, though. Him and my mom have been married for 31-32 years.. I cannot remember exactly. He taught me by actions: He has always put his family first and is the type of person that would give you the shirt off his back if you needed it. I knew I wanted a man in my life that had those qualities, and I have found him. So I guess, in a sense, what you heard is true about me.
My Dad and my Husband are very similar, there birthday is only two days apart also. They share a similar personality (although my Husbands hates to admit that) and they both think they're Peter Pan and that they'll live forever, adult children comes to mind. They both work harder then anyone I know in order for their families to have the best life possible. They both like a sleep in the afternoon and they both adore my Daughter. Differences? 30 years, lol
well...my hubby and father have a few things in common....the both keep steady jobs, they both have a bunch of daughters, both do carpentry work(when they want). but my daddy is a drunk and my hubby has a 6 pack that has been in there for a month, my dad used to hit my mom and my hubby hasn't laid a hand on me in 13 years. same in little ways different in MAJOR ways
My husband and my father have very little in common other than the fact they are both good and decent men. HOWEVER, truth be told, I actually married a man very similar to my uncle Rick. Tall, lanky, computer nerd, highly intelligent, goofy sense of humor, and a wiz in the kitchen.
Actually, I chose my boyfriend(fiance) because he was nothing like my father, because honestly, my father is the kind of man that I can't STAND! Every other word is a curse word, he's loud and dirty, doesn't wash his hands after he pees (Lol), and ugh, just annoying lol!





My boyfriend on the other hand...


is a little more conservative and he can watch his language :) I love him so much!
Both my fiance and my dad have the habit of telling totally long unnecessary stories to get to a not so important point!


They both lose their temper very easily while attempting DIY


They would both do anything in the world for me





They aren't really any major differences!
Actually they're nothing alike. I've heard that alot, but my husband's nothing like my dad, or none of most of my stepdads. He's only somewhat simlar to my mom's husband Dan, only because they both like video games. Lol!
They're opposites.


My dad ( and I love him to bits) is a very lazy man. My husband is a workaholic.


They're both very loving and generous men, but certainly have different priorities in life.
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