Thursday, July 29, 2010

How do I tell my husband that I'm pregnant?

My husband was just finished telling me that he doesn't want kids for another 2 to 3 years, when I took a positive pregnancy test. I don't know how too tell him! I am only 26!How do I tell my husband that I'm pregnant?
Be really obvious about symptoms for a few days.... Make him ';figure it out';.... so then he will be the one to tell you and feel smart!How do I tell my husband that I'm pregnant?
hi,first congrats on your pregnancy!As for telling your husband, well there is no other way really but to just come out and say it to him.He is either going to be angry and take it a totally different way, or you might be surprised and he might actually be happy.Either way he needs to know.Also 26 yrs old, isn't a bad age to have a baby.Im almost 22 and i have a 11 month old baby boy and im currently 32 weeks pregnant with my second baby boy.I wouldn't change it for the world.Good luck and congrats again
If he is really your husband like you say he is than just tell him. No, he doesn't want them right now, but I am pretty sure if he found out you were pregnant now he wouldn't turn his back on you. There will never be a good time for kids because they are a lifetime investment. Here I am 27 years old and my parents still help me out from time to time and probably even more since I am having a baby in 2 mo. So, that's just how it is. He may have just said that, thinking that you don't want any.
my husband said the exact same thing to me when we were 25, when i got a positive test i was shocked. i just stareted crying, i called him at work and told him he asked why i was crying and i told him because he didnt want kids yet. he just laughed he could never be upset about becoming a father even though it wasnt his plan, plans change, hopefully yours will think the same way mine did, he will see waht a blessing it is and realize that really 2-3 years isnt a big difference. plan a special dinner and tell him. good luck
Tell him...';I know you didn't want kids for a while but...I'm pregnant.'; Maybe you could do it in a fun way, while still stating that same thing. Maybe make him a card or a cute note that says the same thing. Good luck. Men seem to change their minds sometimes about wanting a baby. Make him go with you to the first dr's appt. When they do the ultrasound and see/hear the heartbeat, he may change his mind. 26 is a good age to have kids...if you are prepared financially.
Just go to him and say that we will be starting a family much sooner than you think because I am pregnant now. I am not sure how he will take the news but do not make it seem like bad news when you are about to tell him just ease it into the conversation.
i would say ..';hey honey(or whatever your pet name is for him) rember how you said you didnt want kids for a couple of more years? i understand what you want but im afraid that your going to have to shorten that time to 9 months..........tell him you want to keep it and that your very excited about being a mother to be';.............or somthing to that effect...best of luck..and congrats on the baby to be
Well just sit down and tell him that LIFE had other plans for the both of you. 26 I think is a good age to have a baby. He may be a little freaked but he'll be okay. Good luck to you and congrats!
okay hunni calm down sit him down and be like ';hunni,i don't want to upset you but um...im pregnant and im sorry but i am and i wanna have kids';Hows that?or let him see you throwup and then say im pregnant
Your husband probably meant that he didn't want to plan having kids for another 2-3 years. If he wants kids down the road I am sure he will be thrilled to find our you are pregnant.





Guys are stupid and say stupid things. Just tell him, he will be happy!
What do you mean only 26!! that is a nice age to have a baby, just tell him your pregnant your married you should be able to talk to him, bet he will be happy xx
I agree with MK6! It takes two people to make a baby! Unless you lied to him about stopping your BC you did nothing wrong! Good luck!
you: honey......


him: yes sweetie


you: I'M PEGNANT!!
just don't call him at work like I did with our first. He'll get used to the idea, it may take some time but he's got nine months to get used to it.
Start by saying ';Look what you did to me!!!';.
Tell him. Its kind of that simple. Whats done is done.
just talk to him .. ?
just tell it to him straight
here is a video that would be a great aid in answering your question and clear everything up. Hope it helps!


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jCOtF8OV3Zo

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