I just took a home pregnancy test and it came out positive very quickly, I have also had other symptoms and have not had my period in about a month. I need some good ideas on how to tell him that I am pregnant. We have talked about kids and he wants them someday, but not yet. We decided we would wait a few more years as I am 21 and he is 22. I am looking for a way to tell him so that he will not freak out on me to bad.How should I tell my husband I am pregnant?
If you guys are happily married, and you want kids someday, then being pregnant shouldn't be the end of the world. Most men gauge their reactions based upon what the woman feels. If you act excited, he will too. Father's day is just around the corner. Get something cute that says ';World's greatest Dad!'; I'm sure he'll love it, and he'll be happy. Planning to have kids is stressful. I think the surprise babies are always the best! congrats!How should I tell my husband I am pregnant?
Stand in front of the mirror and practice saying it, pretty soon you will have it memorized and it will be a piece of cake.
just show him the preg test he will get and you are probably worried too much about his reaction. Just tell him.
Say to him, baby theres a bun in the over!
I always thought it was a good idea to have kids later in life, untill I heard this one little gem:
If you know you are going to have kids, you might as well do it.
After all your life is going to be turned upside down anyways, so what does it matter? It's a whole new adventure.
As for the telling:
1. Make sure you're really, really behind this.
2. Do not wait too long. He deserves to know.
3. I get creepy about romantic settings. You get your own hopes up because of the artificial hollywood-style setting you create, and you're unprepared for when he reacts slightly un-hollywood-like.
4. The actual telling: Dear %26lt;insert name of man%26gt; I am pregnant.
I wrapped the pregnancy test up in wrapping paper and gave it to him. I said, ';Hear I made something for you.'; When he opened it he was speechless. He wasn't ready to have a baby, but eventually he came around and he loves our son very much.
do sumthin relly nice n romantic wit him n den sit down n talk 2 him about im sho hell be happy even if he didnt want it yet it is HIS kid n im sho hell be a proud daddy =)xoxoxoxoxo
wuteva u do dont stress cuz dat wuld just mak it worse ait mama!!!!!!!!!!
CONGRATS
freak out on you too bad? He's the one who knocked you up.
Tell hiim to make sure he has some vacation days available in eight months.
Throw up on...lol
take him to a movie ...Have a romatic dinner and then tell him or you could have a themed dinner and tell him then tell him there you go... that is how you tell him
I am sorry you are worried about how you husband will take the pregnancy. I am sure he won't be to upset. Just tell him and if he freaks out just tell him it will all work out. Don't worry!
first decide what u want to do. then sit him down alone and tell him you took a pregnancy test and it showed up positive. the quicker you tell him the better.
if u decide you will keep it, give him a ';congratulations'; card!! haha, i wanted to do that =P i just told mine flat out.
I've seen those cute little cards that you can record you own message....I wanted to do that while I was preg. with my daughter...say something like ';Guess what honey'; and if you can wait long enough you can record the heart beat at your first ultrasound and put that on the card...so ';guess what honey....~heart beat~ we are having a baby!'; good luck! and congrats!
Well I have an idea...since its almost fathers day get a jewlery box, the kind used for bracelets, and put the test in it as a ';gift'; for fathers day, of course he isnt a father so he wont be expecting anything so he'll be very surprised!! Hopefully he will be excited like you are.
God bless and good luck!
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