Thursday, July 29, 2010

Do you think my husband and I do equal parts?

My husband takes out the trash, cleans up the yard, works on our vehicle, runs errands, goes to the store and sometimes helps look after the kids. I take care of the rest of the house, dishes (by hand), laundry, cleaning the bathroom, cleaning the kids bedrooms, cleaning our bedroom, sweep, mop, vacuum etc, cook all meals, pay bills, make phone calls, look after the kids. Do you think we're doing equal amounts of work? Also, my husband is unemployed right now, and I am disabled so I don't work at all.Do you think my husband and I do equal parts?
I say, some help is better than no help at all. If you want him to help more, you need to tell him. Be specific. My experience has been that a lot of men are often clueless; you need to tell them exactly what you want. You'll be more likely to get a positive response if you put it nicely as opposed to crabbing about it.Do you think my husband and I do equal parts?
No you don't do equal parts. The fact that your husband is unemployed does not give him the right to hang around the house. He should spend the majority of his day looking for work. good luck.
You know the answer to this. But if the kids are over the age of 3...they need to be putting in their share too...within reason obviously.
Looks about equal to me.
Help find him a job. Then he will be back to the way things where.





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